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In reply to the discussion: Anybody here tonight? We lost our sweet baby girl dog on Wednesday. [View all]Silver Gaia
(5,221 posts)Your words were soothing to read, and held much good advice. I need to do as you've suggested. I will start focusing on memories and collecting things of hers.She was also a border collie and was my deep heart dog. Like your border collie, she was in an unfixable situation, and was in terrible pain. She tried to hide it, but that was her nature. The pain in her eyes was impossible to miss. We did the best we could. I just wish we had not let her be taken from uscso immediately. With our other pets who passed, it was a comfort to be able to have time to say goodbye and process the death while we prepared a burial ceremony. I am missing that, and regret it. But I am too sick to dig a grave. I only wish I had thought to ask for help with that.