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lhatcher2

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18. Lost your dog
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 07:31 AM
Saturday

I'm so sorry for your loss. My wife and I lost our 13 year old Golden mix on Monday after Easter in 2021. I walked her every morning if it wasn't raining and Saturday morning she couldn't get up. We rushed her to the vet and she had bone cancer. They gave her a shot to ease the pain so she could spent Easter with us. Our children and grand children came over and we all had a good steak. My son drove us to the vet Monday morning and he put her down. I sat in the room alone with her crying for almost an hour until they needed the room for another animal. We had her cremated and it took about two weeks to get her ashes.

Her ashes are on a chest in our bedroom with a picture of her with us together in happier times. We don't regret the cremation because we are also going to be cremated and our ashes scattered with hers at my wife's family cemetery. We both cried about her for months after, in fact I have tears in my eyes just writing this.

After losing her, we thought we would never get another dog. But we missed having a dog so 14 months later we adopted a 6 month old Boxer/Pyrennes mix. He will be 4 years old on Dec. 21 and we love him very much, but in a different way. We are in our early 70s and we intend to have his ashes with us when he dies.

Hang in there it gets better!

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Hugs to you. Duncanpup Saturday #1
Thank you for the hugs. Silver Gaia Saturday #2
I'm here for you, Gaia SheltieLover Saturday #3
Thank you so much, Sheltie! Silver Gaia Saturday #15
So happy to have been able to ease your suffering a bit, Gaia SheltieLover Saturday #26
So sorry I hope you get this resolved and possibly get another pet friend. I know it's impossible to Replace loved one Walleye Saturday #4
Thank you for your kind words. Silver Gaia Saturday #16
I'm sorry you have lost your girl Dr. Shepper Saturday #5
Thank you for this post, Dr. Shepper. Silver Gaia Saturday #19
Call your vet & get her body back SheltieLover Saturday #27
Hugs EverHopeful Saturday #6
Thank you, EverHopeful. Silver Gaia Saturday #20
My husband's cat (his bestie next to me) tavernier Saturday #7
Thank you for sharing your story, tavernier. Silver Gaia Saturday #21
so very sorry, Silver Gaia Skittles Saturday #8
Thank you for sharing the poem, Skittles. Silver Gaia Saturday #22
i am so sorry you're going through this. orleans Saturday #9
Thank you, orleans. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #44
Just woke up and saw this and I cannnot express how much I do feel for you. All here have undoubtedly hlthe2b Saturday #10
Yes, Fionna was the puppy who healed the hole in my heart Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #45
So very sorry, Gaia gademocrat7 Saturday #11
Thank you, gademocrat7. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #46
I'm so sorry for your loss. iemanja Saturday #12
Yes, I will begin planning this tomorrow. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #47
Very sorry for your loss Deminpenn Saturday #13
Thank you for sharing your experiences, Deminpenn. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #48
Sadly, there's not much you can do to change the outcome. It's the cycle of life. Time will make it easier to bear, Vinca Saturday #14
Thank you, Vinca. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #49
We lost our Pheobe a year and a half ago..... frogstar0 Saturday #17
I'm so sorry I made you cry! But your words brought tears back to my eyes as well. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #50
Lost your dog lhatcher2 Saturday #18
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Saturday #36
Welcome to DU. It's nice to see you here, filled with compassion. NNadir Saturday #38
what a lovely first post Skittles Saturday #41
I am honored that you chose this to be your very fist post on DU. Silver Gaia 20 hrs ago #43
So sorry for your loss, Gaia paxmoki Saturday #23
Thank you for your kindness, paxmoki. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #51
I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. ... littlemissmartypants Saturday #24
Thank you. I am so sorry that you are grieving, too. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #52
Thank you all so very, very much. Silver Gaia Saturday #25
Hope you get a good sleep. 70sEraVet Saturday #29
I did sleep eventually. It was deep and long. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #53
Sending loving kindness and compassion to you LatteLady Saturday #28
Thank you so much for your sweet, caring words. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #54
condolences pfitz59 Saturday #30
Yes, they are. Very much so. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #55
Hugs I'm so sorry for your loss. I have never waited more than 7 days for the return of ashes. I prefer cremation sinkingfeeling Saturday #31
Thank you for the hugs. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #56
This happened to me years ago, but I know my little doggie was with me in spirit by my side. Irish_Dem Saturday #32
After reading all these kind words last night, Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #57
Yes mine never leave home either. Irish_Dem 17 hrs ago #65
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little Fionna gently home in Your niyad Saturday #33
So Mote It Be. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #58
It is very hard to say goodbye to a family member LetMyPeopleVote Saturday #34
Indeed, it is. Thank you. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #59
You didn't let her down. You did the right thing. She is in no pain and is not suffering. Botany Saturday #35
Thank you, Botany. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #60
So sorry for your loss. applegrove Saturday #37
Thank you, applegrove. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #61
Care for the living Dear_Prudence Saturday #39
I am so sorry for your loss as well. Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #62
You lost a dear family member and I'm so sorry for your loss berniesandersmittens Saturday #40
Thank you so very much! Silver Gaia 19 hrs ago #63
My Deepest Thanks to All of You Who Posted Here Last Night Silver Gaia 20 hrs ago #42
Oh what a sweet gorgeous fluff ball Dr. Shepper 17 hrs ago #66
She was definitely a sweet gorgeous fluffball. Thank you. Silver Gaia 44 min ago #71
So sorry for your unbearable loss montanacowboy 19 hrs ago #64
In our family, we have chosen to call that most difficult decision "liberating the spirit." 3catwoman3 16 hrs ago #67
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Trueblue Texan 16 hrs ago #68
You did not let your dog down - she was clearly loved right up to the end. waterwatcher123 14 hrs ago #69
Dear Silver Gaia, I am so sorry for your loss. MIButterfly 2 hrs ago #70
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