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Tarzanrock

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10. The issue is not your son ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025, 04:25 PM

Jan 18

... the issue is child endangerment of that infant child. These people are not responsible enough to care for that child. Do any of them actually have a job where they work? This is a state social services problem. There are laws against people negligently caring for infants. Just how old is that son of yours and why isn't he working somewhere/anywhere if he has a family with an infant to support? Negligently failing/refusing to adequately support an infants welfare is a crime in every state. The issue is beyond these moochers "mooching" off of you -- that infant is not being properly supported financially with the requisite necessities of life, i.e. you cannot have infant children living in broken down motorhomes without electricity -- there are state welfare laws which prohibit this conduct.

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I'm not ok... (rant about my adult son and his gf/baby in my house) SORRY, LONG!!!!! [View all] FirstLight Jan 18 OP

Those people are "abusers" and they are ... Tarzanrock Jan 18 #1

oh, you make it sound so easy. FirstLight Jan 18 #4

The issue is not your son ... Tarzanrock Jan 18 #10

Number one, his job is supposed to start this week FirstLight Jan 18 #12

I wish all of you the best... Think. Again. Jan 18 #2

I have a LOT of insight into this whole family's generational trauma. And have been really working HARD with my therapis FirstLight Jan 18 #3

I'm glad to hear you're working with a therapist... Think. Again. Jan 18 #5

I wish for your sake that you had an impartial extended family member or friend to play intermediary... hlthe2b Jan 18 #6

I haven't been drinking! I only had the thought... and I am resolute. FirstLight Jan 18 #7

Well... We care. Hang in there! hlthe2b Jan 18 #8

Kick them out. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 18 #9

I totally agree. Tarzanrock Jan 18 #11

Well thanks now I feel even worse. FirstLight Jan 18 #13

Doing what's right is difficult. MotownPgh Jan 18 #16

I'm in L.A. County, CA Tarzanrock Jan 18 #14

I hope it all works out. You must be your first priority. LoisB Jan 18 #15

The County Department of Public Social Services here in California ... Tarzanrock Jan 18 #17

Part of the issue is that they're between California and Nevada right now and they moved from Kansas FirstLight Jan 18 #18

A little California law ... Tarzanrock Jan 18 #19

I texted her and told her that I'm worried for her and her baby safety FirstLight Jan 18 #20

She says she's not being abused and the baby's fine. FirstLight Jan 18 #21