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50. We have an obligation to the companion animals we have invited to share our lives.

Mon Jun 29, 2026, 08:43 PM

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In my semi-retirement I started a little dog walking business. The hardest part is when one of my furry clients has reached the end of their life.

I've had clients express regret about waiting too long. I reassure them that they did the best they could. If they weren't ready sooner, they weren't ready. I'm sure they did the best they could.

I have never heard a client express regret that they chose to euthanize their beloved pet too soon.

Knowing that, if you are able, I would encourage you to act soon to give your beloved a pain-free passing. I think that doing this is both an obligation and perhaps the most important gift we can give a beloved companion animal.

If you are not able, you aren't able. I know that you are doing your best. And your pup knows how much you love him.

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