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True Dough

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3. Was this in English or French?

Sun Jun 7, 2026, 07:50 PM

Jun 7

If the speakers were Anglais, could you have countered with your linguistic skills? And when they said, "Sorry, we don't understand French," you could have replied, "About as much as I understand about quantum theory."

If that didn't apply on this occasion, I have nothing witty to add. But I do think it's less than thoughtful to carry on a conversation that one or more members of a dinner party is incapable of following, at least for more than a few minutes.

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After dinner brandy-and-cigars? no_hypocrisy Jun 7 #1

During the meal. Mme. Defarge Jun 7 #2

Was this in English or French? True Dough Jun 7 #3

Great advice! Mme. Defarge Jun 7 #4

A Subject I Would Never Bring Up ProfessorGAC Jun 7 #5

I'm sure it was meant to impress Mme. Defarge Jun 7 #6

Highly Likely ProfessorGAC Jun 7 #7

Formidable Mme. Defarge Jun 7 #9

"how appropriate is it?".... anciano Jun 7 #8

Merci! Mme. Defarge Jun 7 #10

I always thought people who bring up things like that were odins folly Jun 7 #11

Ah, mockery - Mme. Defarge Jun 7 #12

Inconsiderate, unless they were willing and able wnylib Jun 7 #13

Wanting to impress someone Mme. Defarge Jun 7 #14

"Inappropriate?" perhaps, indeed, "rude" is the better word. malthaussen Jun 8 #15

Actually, Mme. Defarge Jun 8 #16