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18. Dear deb....we got you

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I am sad and nervous. I went to the Breast Cancer Center this afternoon for my six month check up for a lump in my right [View all] debm55 Wednesday OP

I won't let you fall into the fears. I have good feelings coming your way and nothing that hlthe2b Wednesday #1

Thank you hlthe2b. For being here. Love, deb. debm55 Wednesday #3

Hey, sweetie, the thing that I love most about DU is what one wise poster once said: calimary Wednesday #2

thank you my dear calimary. Love, deb debm55 Wednesday #4

Please believe me when I say don't fret..stay positive and that's good medicine, too. I have an idea of Deuxcents Wednesday #5

Thank you for being my family, Deuxcents. debm55 Thursday #48

Deb please try to take a breath. Diamond_Dog Wednesday #6

I'm gonna jump in here buzzycrumbhunger Wednesday #7

Thank you, buzzycrumbhunger for your wise words. debm55 Thursday #59

Thank you, my dear Diamond_Dog. debm55 Thursday #49

Wishing you a positive outcome on your biopsy. Marie Marie Wednesday #8

I will, Thank you, Marie Marie. debm55 Thursday #50

Holding you and Rich in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome. niyad Wednesday #9

Thank you for your kind words for Rich and me. niyad. debm55 Thursday #60

My mother had bilateral breast cancer lumps. She had lumpectomy, radiation, and then took tamoxifen. She did not die surfered Wednesday #10

Thank you very much, my friend. debm55 Thursday #61

🙏 surfered Thursday #65

I'm sending you healing vibes and positive thoughts! Nt spooky3 Wednesday #11

Thank you very much, spooky3. debm55 Thursday #62

I am sending you hugs and all the best energy to surround you! MLAA Wednesday #12

Dear MLAA. sending hugs to you also. debm55 Thursday #63

... WestMichRad Wednesday #13

Back at you WestMichRad. debm55 Thursday #64

Dear dear dearest Deb, You bring so much empathy, fun, joy and memory KitFox Wednesday #14

Thank you my dear friend, KitFox,❤️ debm55 Thursday #66

Dear Deb.....May the next days land gently for you Ninga Wednesday #15

Thank you, very much, Ninga. debm55 Thursday #67

Oh sweet Deb. I'm sending you hugs and healing vibes sueh Wednesday #16

Thank you very much, sueh. ❤️ debm55 Thursday #71

Of course you are sad and nervous. It's a normal reaction, and you did the right thing by talking about it. hamsterjill Wednesday #17

Thank you very much, my friend, for your kind words. debm55 Thursday #72

Dear deb....we got you irisblue Thursday #18

Thank you very much, irisblue. ❤️ debm55 Thursday #73

You have our affection and support dear debm55. alwaysinasnit Thursday #19

You are sweet my friend, alwaysinasnit. debm55 Thursday #74

My dog Diggory and I are sending you calm and peace..... ColoringFool Thursday #20

Hey, ColoringFool! calimary Thursday #23

Bless you , ColoringFool. ❤️ debm55 Thursday #75

Oh debm55 I'm so sorry Figarosmom Thursday #21

Thank you very much for your kind words, Figarosmom. I will try. debm55 Thursday #76

We're all going to be here with you Debbie, JMCKUSICK Thursday #22

Love you , John. Thank you for your post. debm55 Thursday #77

Oh Deb. summer_in_TX Thursday #24

Thank you very much, summer_in_TX. Rich and I appreciate your prayers❤️. debm55 Thursday #78

good wishes for a positive outcome dear debm55 msongs Thursday #25

Thank you my dear msongs. debm55 Thursday #97

Sending you love, hugs and healing thoughts deb. sheshe2 Thursday #26

Thank you my sweet sheshe2❤️ debm55 Thursday #98

Healing vibes to you stage left Thursday #27

Thank you for your warm thoughts. stage left.❤️ debm55 Thursday #99

I'm holding you in my heart dear person. Hope22 Thursday #28

Thank you very much for your warm post, Hope22.❤️ debm55 Thursday #100

One day at a time, dear Deb.. Permanut Thursday #29

Thank you for sharing with me. Permanut. debm55 Thursday #101

Waiting Is The Worst DET Thursday #30

Your very kind words have me in tears---happy tears. Thank you so much DET. Love, Deb. debm55 Thursday #102

I have sent my plea to The Universe for your good health. You will not be alone LoisB Thursday #31

Thank you my friend, LoisB. Love, deb. debm55 Thursday #103

Dear sweet, wonderful Deb MIButterfly Thursday #32

Thank you my dear MiButterfly. Love, deb.❤️ And--------- debm55 Thursday #106

I don't even know where to begin. murielm99 Thursday #33

Thank you so much, murielm99, Bless you❤️ debm55 17 hrs ago #121

I hope for negative results and a positive outcome. Buddyzbuddy Thursday #34

Thank you very much, Buddyzbuddy debm55 18 hrs ago #118

Sending hugs for you and Rich. Whatever the livetohike Thursday #35

Thank you very much, livetohhike.❤️ debm55 Thursday #38

You're strong. zanana1 Thursday #36

Thank you very much, zanana1 debm55 Thursday #37

I go in every year - TBF Thursday #39

I use to go every year. My maternal aunt and 2 cousins died from breast cancer. I go every 6 months. Thank you TBF with debm55 17 hrs ago #119

Stay strong, debm66 - We're here for you. n/t TygrBright Thursday #40

Thank you very much for sharing that with me, TygrBright.❤️ debm55 17 hrs ago #120

I have a sister-in-law who is a ten year survivor of Her2 breast cancer. NNadir Thursday #41

Thank you very much, NNadir. I can do it. debm55 17 hrs ago #122

Wishing you all the best of life as you and your husband struggle together. I am so sorry for you. Fla Dem Thursday #42

Thank you very much, Fla Dem. debm55 Thursday #53

Please take care and stay strong. We are all here for you. Sending positive thoughts.❤️ lucca18 Thursday #43

Thank you very much, lucca18 debm55 Thursday #46

My best wishes Dear_Prudence Thursday #44

Thank you very much, Dear_Prudence. debm55 Thursday #45

Sending you love and peace.❤️ PittBlue Thursday #47

Thank you very much, PittBlue. We have BlueCross/ Blue Shield , Federal Employees. so it's AHN debm55 Thursday #51

For you debm55... pdxflyboy Thursday #52

Thank you very much, pdxflyboy. debm55 Thursday #54

Please take a moment and take a deep breath, Deb Niagara Thursday #55

Thank you very much for your kind words, Niagara. debm55 Thursday #57

Very Sorry to hear your news debm55. Many of my wife's family know they are at risk after BRCA test. IA8IT Thursday #56

Thank you very much for sharing with us, IA8IT. On my maternal side I had an aunt and two cousins die from breast debm55 Thursday #58

Hang in there! I know this must be scary for you. Ocelot II Thursday #68

Thank you very much, my friend Ocelot II. ❤️ debm55 Thursday #81

Deb, you have your husband, your doctors, and us at DU Polly Hennessey Thursday #69

Thank you my dear friend, Polly Hennessey. Love, deb. debm55 Thursday #96

Deb, you can lean on us ANY TIME.. some_of_us_are_sane Thursday #70

Thank you my friend , some_of_us_are_sane.Thank you for your love, support and prayers. debm55 Thursday #94

Glad we were here! Take care dear deb. You are in my thoughts tonight... CTyankee Thursday #79

Thank you very much, my dear, CTyankee.❤️ debm55 Thursday #82

... Delphinus Thursday #80

Love you. debm55 Thursday #84

I've been dealing with cancer for the last eight years, some days it's difficult to stay positive, I wish you the best. sop Thursday #83

Thank you dear sop. And I will keep you in my prayers tonight. Love, Deb. debm55 Thursday #95

May you always find and/or receive the love and energy you need LuvLoogie Thursday #85

Thank you my sweet friend, LuvLoogie. debm55 Thursday #92

Thank you my friend, LuvLoogie. I will send a prayer to you tonight debm55 Thursday #93

A lot to deal with! BeneteauBum Thursday #86

Thank you my friend for your kind words.BeneteauBum. debm55 Thursday #88

The thing that's important is that you HAVE been TexasBushwhacker Thursday #87

Yes, they flagged it was abnormal last summer.Instead of yearly tests I have been tested every six months. It threw me debm55 Thursday #90

Yes. I lost my mother to breast cancer TexasBushwhacker Yesterday #111

I'm thinking about you, Deb55... Trueblue Texan Thursday #89

Thank you for your wish words my friend. Trueblue Texan. debm55 Thursday #91

The Pittsburgh hospitals are wonderful, gab13by13 Thursday #104

Thank you gab13by13. debm55 18 hrs ago #117

You're up to the fight. You have plenty enough people in your corner. Push through. marble falls Thursday #105

Thank you for your kind words, marble falls. debm55 18 hrs ago #116

Sending good vibes.. BlueWaveNeverEnd Thursday #107

Thank you my friend.❤️ debm55 18 hrs ago #115

You will get through this DelMar dem Thursday #108

Yes, it is the waiting. Thank you DelMar dem. debm55 18 hrs ago #114

Sending you my best wishes u4ic Yesterday #109

Thank you very much, u4ic.❤️ debm55 18 hrs ago #113

deb, True Dough Yesterday #110

Thank you very much, True Dough❤️ debm55 18 hrs ago #112

I'm sending good vibes malaise 17 hrs ago #123

Thank you very much, malaise. debm55 17 hrs ago #124