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Diamond_Dog

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6. Deb please try to take a breath.

Wed May 13, 2026, 11:00 PM

18 hrs ago

I have been in your shoes and I can just imagine how you’re feeling.

My oncologist always tells me that medical science improves so fast even in the last 5 years there are new treatments, drugs, that weren’t around before. And, if you have to have surgery, you have to have it. It’s not the end of the world. I have been through it! And that was 19 years ago and I’m still here! You will be okay. I will send you good thoughts and strength to deal. Here’s a hug….

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I am sad and nervous. I went to the Breast Cancer Center this afternoon for my six month check up for a lump in my right [View all] debm55 18 hrs ago OP

I won't let you fall into the fears. I have good feelings coming your way and nothing that hlthe2b 18 hrs ago #1

Thank you hlthe2b. For being here. Love, deb. debm55 18 hrs ago #3

Hey, sweetie, the thing that I love most about DU is what one wise poster once said: calimary 18 hrs ago #2

thank you my dear calimary. Love, deb debm55 18 hrs ago #4

Please believe me when I say don't fret..stay positive and that's good medicine, too. I have an idea of Deuxcents 18 hrs ago #5

Thank you for being my family, Deuxcents. debm55 19 min ago #48

Deb please try to take a breath. Diamond_Dog 18 hrs ago #6

I'm gonna jump in here buzzycrumbhunger 18 hrs ago #7

Thank you, my dear Diamond_Dog. debm55 18 min ago #49

Wishing you a positive outcome on your biopsy. Marie Marie 18 hrs ago #8

I will, Thank you, Marie Marie. debm55 17 min ago #50

Holding you and Rich in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome. niyad 18 hrs ago #9

My mother had bilateral breast cancer lumps. She had lumpectomy, radiation, and then took tamoxifen. She did not die surfered 18 hrs ago #10

I'm sending you healing vibes and positive thoughts! Nt spooky3 17 hrs ago #11

I am sending you hugs and all the best energy to surround you! MLAA 17 hrs ago #12

... WestMichRad 17 hrs ago #13

Dear dear dearest Deb, You bring so much empathy, fun, joy and memory KitFox 17 hrs ago #14

Dear Deb.....May the next days land gently for you Ninga 17 hrs ago #15

Oh sweet Deb. I'm sending you hugs and healing vibes sueh 17 hrs ago #16

Of course you are sad and nervous. It's a normal reaction, and you did the right thing by talking about it. hamsterjill 17 hrs ago #17

Dear deb....we got you irisblue 17 hrs ago #18

You have our affection and support dear debm55. alwaysinasnit 17 hrs ago #19

My dog Diggory and I are sending you calm and peace..... ColoringFool 17 hrs ago #20

Hey, ColoringFool! calimary 16 hrs ago #23

Oh debm55 I'm so sorry Figarosmom 16 hrs ago #21

We're all going to be here with you Debbie, JMCKUSICK 16 hrs ago #22

Oh Deb. summer_in_TX 16 hrs ago #24

good wishes for a positive outcome dear debm55 msongs 16 hrs ago #25

Sending you love, hugs and healing thoughts deb. sheshe2 16 hrs ago #26

Healing vibes to you stage left 16 hrs ago #27

I'm holding you in my heart dear person. Hope22 16 hrs ago #28

One day at a time, dear Deb.. Permanut 15 hrs ago #29

Waiting Is The Worst DET 15 hrs ago #30

I have sent my plea to The Universe for your good health. You will not be alone LoisB 14 hrs ago #31

Dear sweet, wonderful Deb MIButterfly 14 hrs ago #32

I don't even know where to begin. murielm99 12 hrs ago #33

I hope for negative results and a positive outcome. Buddyzbuddy 11 hrs ago #34

Sending hugs for you and Rich. Whatever the livetohike 10 hrs ago #35

Thank you very much, livetohhike.❤️ debm55 7 hrs ago #38

You're strong. zanana1 10 hrs ago #36

Thank you very much, zanana1 debm55 7 hrs ago #37

I go in every year - TBF 7 hrs ago #39

Stay strong, debm66 - We're here for you. n/t TygrBright 7 hrs ago #40

I have a sister-in-law who is a ten year survivor of Her2 breast cancer. NNadir 7 hrs ago #41

Wishing you all the best of life as you and your husband struggle together. I am so sorry for you. Fla Dem 5 hrs ago #42

Please take care and stay strong. We are all here for you. Sending positive thoughts.❤️ lucca18 5 hrs ago #43

Thank you very much, lucca18 debm55 26 min ago #46

My best wishes Dear_Prudence 34 min ago #44

Thank you very much, Dear_Prudence. debm55 27 min ago #45

Sending you love and peace.❤️ PittBlue 24 min ago #47