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hlthe2b

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1. I won't let you fall into the fears. I have good feelings coming your way and nothing that

Wed May 13, 2026, 10:45 PM

21 hrs ago

you have written means you can't get through this with ultimately good results. Breath deeply and don't let yourself dwell on the fears of the unknown. Yes, of course they are there, but move them way to the back of your mind and take everything as the most positive they can be. Every step is one toward resolution. Day by day. Positive thoughts will steer your mind and yes, be good for your body too!

Now go get some sleep knowing we are all going to be thinking of you with best healing thoughts!

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I am sad and nervous. I went to the Breast Cancer Center this afternoon for my six month check up for a lump in my right [View all] debm55 21 hrs ago OP

I won't let you fall into the fears. I have good feelings coming your way and nothing that hlthe2b 21 hrs ago #1

Thank you hlthe2b. For being here. Love, deb. debm55 21 hrs ago #3

Hey, sweetie, the thing that I love most about DU is what one wise poster once said: calimary 21 hrs ago #2

thank you my dear calimary. Love, deb debm55 21 hrs ago #4

Please believe me when I say don't fret..stay positive and that's good medicine, too. I have an idea of Deuxcents 21 hrs ago #5

Thank you for being my family, Deuxcents. debm55 3 hrs ago #48

Deb please try to take a breath. Diamond_Dog 21 hrs ago #6

I'm gonna jump in here buzzycrumbhunger 20 hrs ago #7

Thank you, buzzycrumbhunger for your wise words. debm55 1 hr ago #59

Thank you, my dear Diamond_Dog. debm55 3 hrs ago #49

Wishing you a positive outcome on your biopsy. Marie Marie 20 hrs ago #8

I will, Thank you, Marie Marie. debm55 3 hrs ago #50

Holding you and Rich in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome. niyad 20 hrs ago #9

Thank you for your kind words for Rich and me. niyad. debm55 1 hr ago #60

My mother had bilateral breast cancer lumps. She had lumpectomy, radiation, and then took tamoxifen. She did not die surfered 20 hrs ago #10

Thank you very much, my friend. debm55 1 hr ago #61

🙏 surfered 1 hr ago #65

I'm sending you healing vibes and positive thoughts! Nt spooky3 20 hrs ago #11

Thank you very much, spooky3. debm55 1 hr ago #62

I am sending you hugs and all the best energy to surround you! MLAA 20 hrs ago #12

Dear MLAA. sending hugs to you also. debm55 1 hr ago #63

... WestMichRad 20 hrs ago #13

Back at you WestMichRad. debm55 1 hr ago #64

Dear dear dearest Deb, You bring so much empathy, fun, joy and memory KitFox 20 hrs ago #14

Thank you my dear friend, KitFox,❤️ debm55 1 hr ago #66

Dear Deb.....May the next days land gently for you Ninga 20 hrs ago #15

Thank you, very much, Ninga. debm55 1 hr ago #67

Oh sweet Deb. I'm sending you hugs and healing vibes sueh 20 hrs ago #16

Thank you very much, sueh. ❤️ debm55 13 min ago #71

Of course you are sad and nervous. It's a normal reaction, and you did the right thing by talking about it. hamsterjill 20 hrs ago #17

Thank you very much, my friend, for your kind words. debm55 9 min ago #72

Dear deb....we got you irisblue 20 hrs ago #18

Thank you very much, irisblue. ❤️ debm55 7 min ago #73

You have our affection and support dear debm55. alwaysinasnit 20 hrs ago #19

You are sweet my friend, alwaysinasnit. debm55 5 min ago #74

My dog Diggory and I are sending you calm and peace..... ColoringFool 19 hrs ago #20

Hey, ColoringFool! calimary 19 hrs ago #23

Bless you , ColoringFool. ❤️ debm55 4 min ago #75

Oh debm55 I'm so sorry Figarosmom 19 hrs ago #21

Thank you very much for your kind words, Figarosmom. I will try. debm55 2 min ago #76

We're all going to be here with you Debbie, JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #22

Love you , John. Thank you for your post. debm55 1 min ago #77

Oh Deb. summer_in_TX 19 hrs ago #24

good wishes for a positive outcome dear debm55 msongs 19 hrs ago #25

Sending you love, hugs and healing thoughts deb. sheshe2 18 hrs ago #26

Healing vibes to you stage left 18 hrs ago #27

I'm holding you in my heart dear person. Hope22 18 hrs ago #28

One day at a time, dear Deb.. Permanut 18 hrs ago #29

Waiting Is The Worst DET 18 hrs ago #30

I have sent my plea to The Universe for your good health. You will not be alone LoisB 17 hrs ago #31

Dear sweet, wonderful Deb MIButterfly 17 hrs ago #32

I don't even know where to begin. murielm99 15 hrs ago #33

I hope for negative results and a positive outcome. Buddyzbuddy 14 hrs ago #34

Sending hugs for you and Rich. Whatever the livetohike 13 hrs ago #35

Thank you very much, livetohhike.❤️ debm55 10 hrs ago #38

You're strong. zanana1 12 hrs ago #36

Thank you very much, zanana1 debm55 10 hrs ago #37

I go in every year - TBF 10 hrs ago #39

Stay strong, debm66 - We're here for you. n/t TygrBright 9 hrs ago #40

I have a sister-in-law who is a ten year survivor of Her2 breast cancer. NNadir 9 hrs ago #41

Wishing you all the best of life as you and your husband struggle together. I am so sorry for you. Fla Dem 7 hrs ago #42

Thank you very much, Fla Dem. debm55 2 hrs ago #53

Please take care and stay strong. We are all here for you. Sending positive thoughts.❤️ lucca18 7 hrs ago #43

Thank you very much, lucca18 debm55 3 hrs ago #46

My best wishes Dear_Prudence 3 hrs ago #44

Thank you very much, Dear_Prudence. debm55 3 hrs ago #45

Sending you love and peace.❤️ PittBlue 3 hrs ago #47

Thank you very much, PittBlue. We have BlueCross/ Blue Shield , Federal Employees. so it's AHN debm55 2 hrs ago #51

For you debm55... pdxflyboy 2 hrs ago #52

Thank you very much, pdxflyboy. debm55 2 hrs ago #54

Please take a moment and take a deep breath, Deb Niagara 2 hrs ago #55

Thank you very much for your kind words, Niagara. debm55 1 hr ago #57

Very Sorry to hear your news debm55. Many of my wife's family know they are at risk after BRCA test. IA8IT 2 hrs ago #56

Thank you very much for sharing with us, IA8IT. On my maternal side I had an aunt and two cousins die from breast debm55 1 hr ago #58

Hang in there! I know this must be scary for you. Ocelot II 48 min ago #68

Deb, you have your husband, your doctors, and us at DU Polly Hennessey 40 min ago #69

Deb, you can lean on us ANY TIME.. some_of_us_are_sane 26 min ago #70