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44. I couldn't find her name on the funeral home's website.

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 01:23 AM

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I didn't see any references to religion on their site, either. Same for the cemetery. Maybe I made a mistake, or maybe she was not observant.

I had read that flowers were sent historically because their fragrance was supposed to help offset any odor, especially if there were several days between passing and burial.

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I'd contribute! n/t intheflow Tuesday #6

Consider this: I believe She's Jewish. Flowers are not typical. It might Ilsa Tuesday #10

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