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MadameButterfly

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56. We don't know the state of their marriage

Thu Jan 9, 2025, 12:55 PM

Jan 9

and it will be sad if his bad judgment means they not only lose their stuff, but their marriage also. I hope they can recover and be there for each other. Love might be all they have left. The only thing worse than losing everything is feeling that its your own fault. Or having the people you love blame you--and if they are right that only makes it worse. I'm guessing this one error is not all that defines this guy.

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My daughter has lost nearly everything in the Eaton fire, thanks in no small part to her idiot husband. [View all] Floyd R. Turbo Jan 8 OP

It's heart breaking. I'm so sorry. MLAA Jan 8 #1

I'm sorry Floyd. lapucelle Jan 8 #2

I am so sorry that your daughter is married to an idiot. madaboutharry Jan 8 #3

We don't know the state of their marriage MadameButterfly Jan 9 #56

I guess you don't think much of your son-in-law PJMcK Jan 8 #4

Oh geez. I am so sorry, Floyd. Diamond_Dog Jan 8 #5

I'm thankful that she's safe. Hope she reaches you soon. jls4561 Jan 8 #6

Very sad. Nt spooky3 Jan 8 #7

Oh no! So horribly sad! KitFox Jan 8 #8

I'm so very sorry. mzmolly Jan 8 #9

So sad SheltieLover Jan 8 #10

I'm so sorry BigMin28 Jan 8 #11

Very sorry Kaleva Jan 8 #12

I'm sorry for her CanonRay Jan 8 #13

Oh what a travesty,... many of the irreplaceables could have been salvaged. magicarpet Jan 8 #14

Really sorry to hear about this. What an awful disaster. love_katz Jan 8 #15

What a tragedy....I'm so sorry. Sogo Jan 8 #16

I'm sorry this is happening to her and I'm sorry for the worry you are still experiencing. Solly Mack Jan 8 #17

It really is turning into "Everybody's Worst Nightmare". calimary Jan 8 #18

That really sucks. LudwigPastorius Jan 8 #19

"It won't happen to me... I've got it under control." keithbvadu2 Jan 8 #20

Please let us know as soon as you hear from her. niyad Jan 8 #21

I don't like that guy. Ptah Jan 8 #22

Her heart must be broken. I can imagine... littlemissmartypants Jan 8 #23

This message was self-deleted by its author onecaliberal Jan 9 #24

I am so sorry. PennRalphie Jan 9 #25

Praying they are safe. JMCKUSICK Jan 9 #26

That is a devastating loss, Floyd. sheshe2 Jan 9 #27

I'm so sorry Floyd dflprincess Jan 9 #28

This is horrifying. It's also the future. 1WorldHope Jan 9 #29

If I had an idiot husband I'd get a divorce, ASAP!!! BigmanPigman Jan 9 #30

Omg I am so sorry for your daughter. kimbutgar Jan 9 #31

I feel so bad for her... slightlv Jan 9 #32

I'm so sorry for your daughter. Dem2theMax Jan 9 #33

Can't imagine the heartbreak... so sorry to hear. InAbLuEsTaTe Jan 9 #34

I am so sorry for your daughter's loss mnhtnbb Jan 9 #35

I'm so sorry. I hope you hear from her soon. nt Phoenix61 Jan 9 #36

I hope you hear from her again soon MissB Jan 9 #37

Absolutely heart breaking. I am so sorry; sending prayers for her safety. LoisB Jan 9 #38

sorry to her and you Kali Jan 9 #39

So devastating and they are but one story among thousands, Fla Dem Jan 9 #40

I'm very sorry your family is experiencing this tragedy NNadir Jan 9 #41

Woah! So sorry for your daughter and you. Hopefully you will hear from her soon. electric_blue68 Jan 9 #42

You can help her rebuild some of her past pfitz59 Jan 9 #43

I'm so sorry. I hope she's safe. yardwork Jan 9 #44

He's not the only one...! Grins Jan 9 #45

Sounds like she didn't lose the one thing she needed to the most. Lochloosa Jan 9 #46

Hope you hear from her soon Marthe48 Jan 9 #47

I'm so sorry milestogo Jan 9 #48

What a sad loss for them. pandr32 Jan 9 #49

Good god...the amount of loss...prayers for them being safe... MiHale Jan 9 #50

Hopefully, she has her photos in the cloud and the house insured. Squaredeal Jan 9 #51

Dear Floyd, I am so, so sorry! CrispyQ Jan 9 #52

Horrifying losses. Passages Jan 9 #53

Hope they are OK...must have been awful for you to lose the phone connection. OAITW r.2.0 Jan 9 #54

(Hugs) AKwannabe Jan 9 #55

Damn Floyd, just fucking damn man. Prairie_Seagull Jan 9 #57

OMG. What a freaking idiot is her husband!! CousinIT Jan 9 #58

Terribly sad to lose so much. Thankfully, they did make it out alive! eom Exp Jan 9 #59

I am so sorry LetMyPeopleVote Jan 9 #60

I'm sorry to hear this MustLoveBeagles Jan 9 #61

So sad. I'm so sorry for your daughter's loss. Clouds Passing Jan 9 #62

Best wishes everyone. BadGimp Jan 9 #63