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Trueblue Texan

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64. I am so sorry and haunted by your description of Penny's decline...
Mon Jan 6, 2025, 02:29 PM
Jan 2025

I am experiencing the same thing with my 14-year old cavalier, Georgia. Tuesday morning she was unable to walk, as though her entire backside is paralyzed. We've been using a sling to toilet her and using diapers which don't help much. It is such a stinking mess, but so far she has not demonstrated pain. I've been having trouble getting her to drink water so I've been mixing it with wet food which she gobbles up. The vet said the anti-inflammatory she's taking can cause kidney issues so I know drinking is important. I worry that she will suddenly decline like your baby if I can't get her to drink water more than she now is. I don't know what to do. Maybe I should just put her down, but cognitively she is so sharp, it just doesn't seem right. Based on what I've seen, her mobility is not going to get better. I don't know what the most humane course would be here. She is also a sweet, gentle baby who looks at me with such trust in her eyes. I want to do what is best for her. I guess I'll just take it one day at a time and hope she passes quietly in her sleep.

Peace and healing to you, dear. I know your heartbreak. I have no problem admitting that it is every bit as painful to lose a beloved pet as a family member. They ARE family members. Take care.

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So sorry, you have all my sympathy. I know how it feels. Walleye Jan 2025 #1
Oh no! Poor baby! CousinIT Jan 2025 #2
The vet just called. About 40 minutes depending on the roads Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #5
I hope she is there now. Peace to you, Penny and your family. Nt spooky3 Jan 2025 #30
Thank you Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #45
We have used Lap of Love twice. They were wonderful. Nt spooky3 Jan 2025 #59
Holding you and those you love close to my heart as these are moments so many of us share. ((🫶)) Deuxcents Jan 2025 #3
Thank you Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #46
I'm so sorry, I've been there. Diamond_Dog Jan 2025 #4
Thank you Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #47
I''m so sorry for your loss. My husband and I are going through a similar situation with our baby, Jasper. Texin Jan 2025 #90
Sending love and hope for a peaceful transition biophile Jan 2025 #6
Thank you Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #50
Wishing all of you peace, love, and comfort. Think. Again. Jan 2025 #7
Thank you Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #51
Lots of love for Penny. mercuryblues Jan 2025 #8
Thank you Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #52
OH I so hope she gets her needed respite soon! lark Jan 2025 #9
I am so sorry Wicked Blue, Dolly is a American Eskimo, I will send good vibes and prayers for Penny and hope the vet can debm55 Jan 2025 #10
Thank you, deb. The vet came, Penny passed Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #53
So very sorry for your loss of Penney. SimplyHadEnough Jan 2025 #89
So sorry Wicked Blue. Penny will always be with you in heart and spirit. Fla Dem Jan 2025 #93
I'm so sorry. I will hold you and Penny in my thoughts. sinkingfeeling Jan 2025 #11
You and Penny are in my thoughts SARose Jan 2025 #12
So sorry! Ocelot II Jan 2025 #13
So sorry 🙏 I know your heart hurts for her. Sending love your way 💙💙💙💙💙 TommieMommy Jan 2025 #14
Brought tears to my eyes. Sorry she is suffering. Hope the vet arrives soon. Fla Dem Jan 2025 #15
I can tell how lucky your family feels to have had such a beautiful, loving Karadeniz Jan 2025 #16
I hope passes gently 10 Turtle Day Jan 2025 #17
I'm so sorry. StarryNite Jan 2025 #18
Penny... Clouds Passing Jan 2025 #19
I'm so sorry, Wicked Blue. LuckyCharms Jan 2025 #20
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your Penny gently home in Your loving arms, niyad Jan 2025 #21
Thank you, dear niyad Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #54
She will live forever in your heart. ZonkerHarris Jan 2025 #22
Wicked Blue , please let us know if the home vet gets there, debm55 Jan 2025 #23
Sorry to hear this. Mr.Bill Jan 2025 #24
I'm.... JoeOtterbein Jan 2025 #25
Vibes for Penny's gentle crossing & healing for your family on the way. SheltieLover Jan 2025 #26
Deepest sympathy orangecrush Jan 2025 #27
Peace for Penny. White light and Love! 1WorldHope Jan 2025 #28
I'm So Very Sorry for You DarthDem Jan 2025 #29
Sending mental hugs. pandr32 Jan 2025 #31
You have my deepest sympathy and hope that the crossing occurs in the most peaceful way Scalded Nun Jan 2025 #32
So sorry about Penny Figarosmom Jan 2025 #33
My profound empathy and sincere condolences. Genevra Jan 2025 #34
She's gone Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #35
I'm so sorry for your loss. She's not suffering anymore now but I know your heart is broken. CousinIT Jan 2025 #56
hugggggggggggss niyad Jan 2025 #57
❄️🌸❄️ Donkees Jan 2025 #36
That - soldierant Jan 2025 #73
Yes, an excerpt from the Night Chant Donkees Jan 2025 #74
Thanks. soldierant Jan 2025 #92
Oh, your caring heart post KitFox Jan 2025 #37
It is a truly horrible day. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2025 #38
I'm so sorry for your loss JMCKUSICK Jan 2025 #39
I am so sorry. May Penny's memories be a blessing to you. debm55 Jan 2025 #40
Sad news Marthe48 Jan 2025 #41
...heartbreaking orleans Jan 2025 #42
I am so sorry about Penny bronxiteforever Jan 2025 #43
So sorry for your impending loss - it hurts so much - music helps..... alittlelark Jan 2025 #44
So sorry to hear this about Penny sdfernando Jan 2025 #48
You have it mgardener Jan 2025 #49
My heart goes out to you. chowder66 Jan 2025 #55
So so sorry montanacowboy Jan 2025 #58
I'm so sorry to hear about Penny... slightlv Jan 2025 #60
I am so sorry :( JoseBalow Jan 2025 #61
My deepest sympathy to you and family virgdem Jan 2025 #62
I am so sorry. Will be thinking of you and Penny. HeartsCanHope Jan 2025 #63
I am so sorry and haunted by your description of Penny's decline... Trueblue Texan Jan 2025 #64
Vibes for best possibble outcome for your sweet Georgia, for peace niyad Jan 2025 #83
I'm so sorry. Teacher of the Year Jan 2025 #65
I'm so sorry cate94 Jan 2025 #66
15 years is a good long life TexasBushwhacker Jan 2025 #67
I'm sorry for your loss. Luciferous Jan 2025 #68
My condolences about your friend Nigrum Cattus Jan 2025 #69
I'm reluctant to click on titles like this because Buddyzbuddy Jan 2025 #70
I know the pain Phentex Jan 2025 #71
I'm so sorry to read this, Wicked Blue Niagara Jan 2025 #72
Sending gentle thoughts for sweet Penny and somfort to her 3 favorite people. MLAA Jan 2025 #75
You did the right thing, posting about it here. calimary Jan 2025 #76
Love and light is a great answer. Please pass gently and so sorry for your loss. I know how much it hurts. Evolve Dammit Jan 2025 #77
I'm so sorry. Cross that Rainbow Bridge gently and with loving arms around you, Penny. skylucy Jan 2025 #78
Bless you and her, pass gently into the good night. I'm in process of losing my 3rd doggie this year, they all SWBTATTReg Jan 2025 #79
Your kindness and love for your dog is what matters. waterwatcher123 Jan 2025 #80
I am sorry for you loss LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2025 #81
💐🌈💐 blm Jan 2025 #82
So sorry that your baby is suffering Picaro Jan 2025 #84
kick debm55 Jan 2025 #85
I'm so sorry. area51 Jan 2025 #86
Very sorry, Wicked Blue. summer_in_TX Jan 2025 #87
In our family, we have decided to call this final loving act "liberating the spirit." 3catwoman3 Jan 2025 #88
I'm so sorry for your sweet girl. Bluethroughu Jan 2025 #91
Such A Drag ProfessorGAC Jan 2025 #94
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