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11. You provided emotional support to your family

Reply to Ilsa (Original post)

Sat May 16, 2026, 11:53 AM

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Sometimes family support systems fail and those needing the support are neglected.

Sometimes there are complications/communication issues/jealousy between siblings after one or both of the parents pass away.

Please know that you were some sort of support system and you did what you could and also provided what you could, Ilsa.

It's important for you to recognize that even if you don't feel like a "superhero".

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Don't sell yourself short Bettie Saturday #1

Hugs to you Ilsa sdfernando Saturday #2

Exactly understated, the same way a superhero would put it. Doing all you could was a lot. That's what a superhero... marble falls Saturday #3

Thank you for bringing us along on this journey, Ilsa. calimary Saturday #4

Not all superhero folks wear capes! ZDU Saturday #5

Emotional support is what keeps all of us sane, Ilsa UpInArms Saturday #6

It's okay. A steady presence has as much positive effect as a superhero. haele Saturday #7

Just to share FullySupportDems Saturday #8

indeed NJCher Saturday #9

Crying is cathartic. Sharing helps release the tears wnylib Saturday #10

You provided emotional support to your family Niagara Saturday #11

Again, thank you for any support to Paul LetMyPeopleVote Saturday #12

Thank you for sharing. CaptainTruth Saturday #13

You carried an incredible burden, with grace Ilsa. JMCKUSICK Saturday #14

Thank You for sharing. I was unaware of his passing. I often liked and commented on his posts. My condolences. ChicagoTeamster Saturday #15

We can't even be everything for our own selves. IbogaProject Saturday #16

Ilsa, you did everything you could. That makes you a hero. Superheroes are fictional and are only highplainsdem Saturday #17

I've been looking for signs for 3 years. No joy, yet. Ilsa Saturday #18

It's possible you missed some when you were griefstricken. But there are some things that can help highplainsdem Saturday #21

Thanks for this share blue_jay Saturday #23

sometimes the signs are there for us but we don't make the connection to our loved ones. orleans Yesterday #30

That was so funny. Ilsa Yesterday #32

Just want to say that, Through the power of your own words, we know exactly how good a person you are! bluestarone Saturday #19

Wishing you comfort and peace from here on out. You've been through a lot. 10 Turtle Day Saturday #20

You were there for emotional support BeneteauBum Saturday #22

you're a good sister Skittles Saturday #24

You're a wonderful sister. Even given your shock and heartbreak, you came here to let us know. lapucelle Saturday #25

You did what you could MustLoveBeagles Saturday #26

My philosophy... oldsoldierfadingfast Saturday #27

Oh! Missed this. My condolences. electric_blue68 Saturday #28

Oh JustAnotherGen Saturday #29

I am sorry about Texas Towelie.nt jfz9580m Yesterday #31

I am sorry Ilsa jfz9580m 6 hrs ago #33