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pnwmom

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21. If that 2021 video is still causing an uproar, it's an example of the bind strong women are in.
Sat Apr 11, 2026, 01:51 PM
Apr 11

They're held to a sweetness standard that does not apply to strong men.

Women candidates walk a gendered tightrope often known as the “double bind,” where they must balance voter expectations of masculinity and femininity, and often come out the worse for the comparison.

.... Today, women who cross that intangible boundary are either too soft or too tough, too loud or too timid. When men take charge of a situation, they are strong and self-confident; when a woman does, she might be considered competent by her peers — but all too often called a “bitch” behind her back.
https://www.sacbee.com/opinion/article312434184.html#storylink=cpy

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It's done fujiyamasan Apr 11 #1
More accusers have come forward. It's bad. SunSeeker Apr 11 #8
It's a real shit show fujiyamasan Apr 11 #12
Do you have issues with Steyer? nt RandomNumbers Apr 11 #22
I'm uncomfortable with billionaires running for executive office fujiyamasan Apr 11 #24
The CNN story about his alleged sexual assualts of women did not help irisblue Apr 11 #2
None willing to put their name by their accusations? The texts they provided as evidence weren't actually sexual? W_HAMILTON Apr 11 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Apr 11 #3
Yup. All of a sudden I see Becerra ads everywhere. nt SunSeeker Apr 11 #9
What is the issue with Porter? nt pnwmom Apr 11 #10
She is not on the ballot nt AllBlue Apr 11 #11
She has a campaign site -- and she's listed in Cal Matters as a candidate. pnwmom Apr 11 #15
True nt AllBlue Apr 11 #23
A staffer was filming her and she was rude to the staffer because the staffer was "in her shot" (aka in her way) LeftInTX Apr 11 #19
If that 2021 video is still causing an uproar, it's an example of the bind strong women are in. pnwmom Apr 11 #21
There are already a ton of anti-Swalwell ads on TV in CA BigmanPigman Apr 11 #4
And I can't vote for a billionaire with no elected experience fujiyamasan Apr 11 #5
Post removed Post removed Apr 11 #6
Oh shit, this moves Steyer up in ranking. I like him, but not as governor. NBachers Apr 11 #13
Same here. Buddyzbuddy Apr 11 #17
Zero sympathy. multigraincracker Apr 11 #7
Could we at least have a trial? BidenRocks Apr 11 #14
It just makes me so sad. He was one of the few who was bold to speak the truth about this monster we are dealing with. mahina Apr 11 #16
If he dropped out on his own we can do the autopsy later. Buddyzbuddy Apr 11 #18
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