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Swede

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Mon Jan 26, 2026, 09:33 AM 20 hrs ago

A co-worker of Alex Pretti posted this on facebook. [View all]

This is Jessia Hauser. These are her words about Alex Pretti - the man killed by I.C.E. yesterday..
"I was Alex Pretti’s final nursing student. He was my friend and my nursing mentor. For the past four months, I stood shoulder to shoulder with him during my capstone preceptorship at the Minneapolis VA Hospital. There he trained me to care for the sickest of the sick as an ICU nurse. He taught me how to care for arterial and central lines, the intricacies of managing multiple IVs filled with lifesaving solutions, and how to watch over every heartbeat, every breath, and every flicker of life, ready to act the moment they wavered. Techniques intended to heal.
Alex carried patience, compassion and calm as a steady light within him. Even at the very end, that light was there. I recognized his familiar stillness and signature calm composure shining through during those unbearable final moments captured on camera.
It does not surprise me that his final words were, “Are you okay?” Caring for people was at the core of who he was. He was incapable of causing harm. He lived a life of healing, and he lived it well.
Alex believed strongly in the Second Amendment and in the rights rooted in our Constitution and its amendments. He spoke out for justice and peace whenever he could, not only out of obligation, but out of a belief that we are more connected than divided, and that communication would bring us together.
I want his family to know his legacy lives on. I am a better nurse because of the wisdom and skills he instilled in me. I carry his light with me into every room, letting it guide and steady my hands as I heal and care for those in need.
Please honor my friend by standing up for peace, preferably with a cup of black coffee in hand and a couple of pieces of candy in your pocket, just as he would. He would remind you that caring for others is hard work, and we must do whatever it takes to get through the long shifts. Step outside with your dog, breathe in the world, hike or bike as he loved to do, and let yourself find peace in the quiet moments within nature. Stand up for justice and speak with those whose views differ from your own. Hold your beliefs with strength, but always extend love outward, even in the face of adversity.
Take one step, no matter how small, to help heal our world. Through these acts, carry his light forward in his name. Let his legacy continue to heal."
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1HBtfu5rav/

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I'm not crying. biophile 20 hrs ago #1
"let yourself find peace in the quiet moments within nature." Botany 20 hrs ago #3
Preferably with a cup of black coffee in hand and a couple of pieces of candy in your pocket, just as he would. Swede 18 hrs ago #22
Brought tears to me eyes ... so sad ... such a loss .. ..nt Jarqui 17 hrs ago #28
I'm not either. Just some H2O fell on my face.... Damn... chouchou 10 hrs ago #38
The MAGAs, GOP, Trump hate this kind of person. They destroy all shining good lights in the world. Irish_Dem 20 hrs ago #2
Being compassionate isn't profitable. SergeStorms 18 hrs ago #24
Good people won't join or support the Trump Crime Syndicate. Irish_Dem 17 hrs ago #29
Only..... SergeStorms 17 hrs ago #31
A crime syndicate hires only psychopaths. Irish_Dem 16 hrs ago #32
Their kind have been doing this forever johnnyfins 17 hrs ago #27
I've always thought that good nurses are like guardian angels FakeNoose 20 hrs ago #4
As a physician, evolves 18 hrs ago #19
You achieve immortality by living a life worth remembering. yellow dahlia 12 hrs ago #37
Beautiful Clouds Passing 19 hrs ago #5
A meaningful, principled life cut short. democrank 19 hrs ago #6
He was a thousand times better than all of them put together. MLWR 18 hrs ago #23
Amen, thank you Swede JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #7
He died attempting to protect a woman being assaulted pfitz59 19 hrs ago #8
Those who care know ours is an infinite loss. Kid Berwyn 19 hrs ago #9
And Jessica.... Biglinda 52 19 hrs ago #10
A moving tribute MustLoveBeagles 19 hrs ago #11
Absolutely beautiful tonkatoy8888 19 hrs ago #12
What a terrible loss karin_sj 19 hrs ago #13
A man practicing the most noble of professions is La Coliniere 19 hrs ago #14
K&R orangecrush 19 hrs ago #15
Getting choked up once again - and angry and frustrated and more determined than ever. llmart 18 hrs ago #16
Beautiful Blue_Roses 18 hrs ago #17
It's tragic that we're always on the receiving end of violence, having to be the better person and stand up for justice. ffr 18 hrs ago #18
that's just beautiful. nt orleans 18 hrs ago #20
you will know who people are by what they do and what they say. and the difference between Alex Pretti and those who somaticexperiencing 18 hrs ago #21
Beautiful Wild blueberry 17 hrs ago #25
The world lost such a wonderful person Tree Lady 17 hrs ago #26
The best of us... RussBLib 17 hrs ago #30
Well stated. calimary 9 hrs ago #41
As a nurse, this really hits me. Maru Kitteh 15 hrs ago #33
💔💔💔 Cha 14 hrs ago #34
Bless his beautiful soul. Joinfortmill 13 hrs ago #35
The world became a smaller place UpInArms 13 hrs ago #36
We keep losing good people to these monsters SunImp 9 hrs ago #39
What they did to Alex Pretti sestina 9 hrs ago #40
May his legacy continue to heal. WestMichRad 8 hrs ago #42
Wow - beautiful tribute. Pinback 7 hrs ago #43
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