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Swede

(38,592 posts)
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 09:33 AM 14 hrs ago

A co-worker of Alex Pretti posted this on facebook.

This is Jessia Hauser. These are her words about Alex Pretti - the man killed by I.C.E. yesterday..
"I was Alex Pretti’s final nursing student. He was my friend and my nursing mentor. For the past four months, I stood shoulder to shoulder with him during my capstone preceptorship at the Minneapolis VA Hospital. There he trained me to care for the sickest of the sick as an ICU nurse. He taught me how to care for arterial and central lines, the intricacies of managing multiple IVs filled with lifesaving solutions, and how to watch over every heartbeat, every breath, and every flicker of life, ready to act the moment they wavered. Techniques intended to heal.
Alex carried patience, compassion and calm as a steady light within him. Even at the very end, that light was there. I recognized his familiar stillness and signature calm composure shining through during those unbearable final moments captured on camera.
It does not surprise me that his final words were, “Are you okay?” Caring for people was at the core of who he was. He was incapable of causing harm. He lived a life of healing, and he lived it well.
Alex believed strongly in the Second Amendment and in the rights rooted in our Constitution and its amendments. He spoke out for justice and peace whenever he could, not only out of obligation, but out of a belief that we are more connected than divided, and that communication would bring us together.
I want his family to know his legacy lives on. I am a better nurse because of the wisdom and skills he instilled in me. I carry his light with me into every room, letting it guide and steady my hands as I heal and care for those in need.
Please honor my friend by standing up for peace, preferably with a cup of black coffee in hand and a couple of pieces of candy in your pocket, just as he would. He would remind you that caring for others is hard work, and we must do whatever it takes to get through the long shifts. Step outside with your dog, breathe in the world, hike or bike as he loved to do, and let yourself find peace in the quiet moments within nature. Stand up for justice and speak with those whose views differ from your own. Hold your beliefs with strength, but always extend love outward, even in the face of adversity.
Take one step, no matter how small, to help heal our world. Through these acts, carry his light forward in his name. Let his legacy continue to heal."
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1HBtfu5rav/

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A co-worker of Alex Pretti posted this on facebook. (Original Post) Swede 14 hrs ago OP
I'm not crying. biophile 14 hrs ago #1
"let yourself find peace in the quiet moments within nature." Botany 14 hrs ago #3
Preferably with a cup of black coffee in hand and a couple of pieces of candy in your pocket, just as he would. Swede 12 hrs ago #22
Brought tears to me eyes ... so sad ... such a loss .. ..nt Jarqui 11 hrs ago #28
I'm not either. Just some H2O fell on my face.... Damn... chouchou 4 hrs ago #38
The MAGAs, GOP, Trump hate this kind of person. They destroy all shining good lights in the world. Irish_Dem 14 hrs ago #2
Being compassionate isn't profitable. SergeStorms 12 hrs ago #24
Good people won't join or support the Trump Crime Syndicate. Irish_Dem 11 hrs ago #29
Only..... SergeStorms 11 hrs ago #31
A crime syndicate hires only psychopaths. Irish_Dem 11 hrs ago #32
Their kind have been doing this forever johnnyfins 12 hrs ago #27
I've always thought that good nurses are like guardian angels FakeNoose 14 hrs ago #4
As a physician, evolves 12 hrs ago #19
You achieve immortality by living a life worth remembering. yellow dahlia 6 hrs ago #37
Beautiful Clouds Passing 14 hrs ago #5
A meaningful, principled life cut short. democrank 14 hrs ago #6
He was a thousand times better than all of them put together. MLWR 12 hrs ago #23
Amen, thank you Swede JMCKUSICK 14 hrs ago #7
He died attempting to protect a woman being assaulted pfitz59 14 hrs ago #8
Those who care know ours is an infinite loss. Kid Berwyn 14 hrs ago #9
And Jessica.... Biglinda 52 14 hrs ago #10
A moving tribute MustLoveBeagles 14 hrs ago #11
Absolutely beautiful tonkatoy8888 14 hrs ago #12
What a terrible loss karin_sj 13 hrs ago #13
A man practicing the most noble of professions is La Coliniere 13 hrs ago #14
K&R orangecrush 13 hrs ago #15
Getting choked up once again - and angry and frustrated and more determined than ever. llmart 13 hrs ago #16
Beautiful Blue_Roses 13 hrs ago #17
It's tragic that we're always on the receiving end of violence, having to be the better person and stand up for justice. ffr 12 hrs ago #18
that's just beautiful. nt orleans 12 hrs ago #20
you will know who people are by what they do and what they say. and the difference between Alex Pretti and those who somaticexperiencing 12 hrs ago #21
Beautiful Wild blueberry 12 hrs ago #25
The world lost such a wonderful person Tree Lady 12 hrs ago #26
The best of us... RussBLib 11 hrs ago #30
Well stated. calimary 3 hrs ago #41
As a nurse, this really hits me. Maru Kitteh 9 hrs ago #33
💔💔💔 Cha 8 hrs ago #34
Bless his beautiful soul. Joinfortmill 8 hrs ago #35
The world became a smaller place UpInArms 7 hrs ago #36
We keep losing good people to these monsters SunImp 4 hrs ago #39
What they did to Alex Pretti sestina 3 hrs ago #40
May his legacy continue to heal. WestMichRad 2 hrs ago #42
Wow - beautiful tribute. Pinback 2 hrs ago #43

Botany

(76,577 posts)
3. "let yourself find peace in the quiet moments within nature."
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 09:52 AM
14 hrs ago

Well crafted and a nice wish. The ICU nurse was murdered by Trump’s goons.

Swede

(38,592 posts)
22. Preferably with a cup of black coffee in hand and a couple of pieces of candy in your pocket, just as he would.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 12:01 PM
12 hrs ago

Irish_Dem

(80,235 posts)
2. The MAGAs, GOP, Trump hate this kind of person. They destroy all shining good lights in the world.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 09:41 AM
14 hrs ago

SergeStorms

(20,076 posts)
24. Being compassionate isn't profitable.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 12:09 PM
12 hrs ago

Until the right-wing lunatics in this country figure out a way to make it profitable, they'll exterminate all who practice compassion. Don't try to understand, it's a "christian" thing.

SergeStorms

(20,076 posts)
31. Only.....
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 12:59 PM
11 hrs ago

the absolute best people do, or so he says.

The absolute best psychopaths, anyway.

FakeNoose

(40,455 posts)
4. I've always thought that good nurses are like guardian angels
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 10:09 AM
14 hrs ago

Unfortunately nurses are also mortal ....

evolves

(5,754 posts)
19. As a physician,
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 11:47 AM
12 hrs ago

I KNOW that this is true. I’ve had the privilege to work with many wonderful nurses. They have enriched me professionally and personally.

yellow dahlia

(5,014 posts)
37. You achieve immortality by living a life worth remembering.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 05:45 PM
6 hrs ago

It is the paraphrase of a quote attributed to Bruce Lee. I have heard it used by others at commencement addresses and elsewhere.

Alex Pretti's legacy will live on in the stories shared by his friends and co-workers. And lives will be saved because he trained some of those nurses.

democrank

(12,290 posts)
6. A meaningful, principled life cut short.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 10:19 AM
14 hrs ago

Alex Pretti was so much better than the thugs that killed him.

Kid Berwyn

(23,419 posts)
9. Those who care know ours is an infinite loss.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 10:20 AM
14 hrs ago

Last edited Mon Jan 26, 2026, 11:28 AM - Edit history (1)

Plus all the lives who Mr. Pretti cannot save, due to the unAmerican actions of trump, noem, bovino and their co-conspirators in treason.

Biglinda 52

(126 posts)
10. And Jessica....
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 10:22 AM
14 hrs ago

Carry on his legacy by teaching the nursing students under your care. That's how you'll keep his memory alive!

tonkatoy8888

(181 posts)
12. Absolutely beautiful
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 10:31 AM
14 hrs ago

remembrance from his co-worker. Mr. Pretti, from this eulogy and other notes from friends and professional associates I have read, seems to have been a real mensch.

What a horrible loss for his family and friends.

And for all of us. Our communities and our world are better because of people like Mr. Pretti.

It's also a reminder to us all to thank those people in our lives who have this special light. Let them know now how you feel and how much you appreciate them. Before it's too late.

karin_sj

(1,338 posts)
13. What a terrible loss
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 10:43 AM
13 hrs ago

This moving tribute brought tears to my eyes and makes me so angry that we are losing good, decent people to these murderous thugs who are so hateful and are actually looking at this violence as a game. And it makes me so utterly scared and worried for the people who have been snatched from the streets and out of their homes. If they are doing these beatings, attacks, and murders in broad daylight, I shudder to think of what they’re doing behind closed doors in the concentration camps that are popping up everywhere.

La Coliniere

(1,793 posts)
14. A man practicing the most noble of professions is
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 11:06 AM
13 hrs ago

murdered by the most ignoble monsters in the service of their monstrous, degenerate orange cult leader is an American tragedy of epic proportions. This cannot stand.

llmart

(17,389 posts)
16. Getting choked up once again - and angry and frustrated and more determined than ever.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 11:17 AM
13 hrs ago

Alex sounds like he is the kind of person who, if one of these goons were to end up in his ICU, would give them the same compassionate care he gave his other patients.

This is a horrible loss for our country in so many ways.

Blue_Roses

(13,810 posts)
17. Beautiful
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 11:28 AM
13 hrs ago

You can hear what a wonderful person Alex was through her words. He sounds like an amazing mentor and friend.

There are not enough words to say how this tragedy should have never happened. Enough. These thugs need to be held accountable.

RIP Alex. You will NOT be forgotten. 😔
.


ffr

(23,335 posts)
18. It's tragic that we're always on the receiving end of violence, having to be the better person and stand up for justice.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 11:35 AM
12 hrs ago

Epstein. Epstein. Epstein.

Everyone I talk to is shocked and scared that so many others feel empowered and emboldened by this lawless regime to turn our streets into a war zone. I fear more peaceful American civilians are going to die before this is over. More atrocities, that would get individuals in the military court-martialed, will go unpunished, protected by this tyrannical pedophile protecting government.

America has morphed into 1930s Nazi Germany.

21. you will know who people are by what they do and what they say. and the difference between Alex Pretti and those who
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 11:57 AM
12 hrs ago

shot him down could never be clearer.

The choice is clear. More's the pity to those who turn a blind eye.

And more the honor to his legacy to those who cherish his memory and carry on the work, decent work, and truly help to heal the troubles of this world.

These are beautiful, cherishing words she speaks and it makes my day better to know these things and to carry on in this light.

Tree Lady

(13,063 posts)
26. The world lost such a wonderful person
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 12:25 PM
12 hrs ago

You really do risk your life going anywhere near ICE no matter who you are or what you do or don’t do.

Maru Kitteh

(31,343 posts)
33. As a nurse, this really hits me.
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 02:44 PM
9 hrs ago

I can’t shake this one off and see it objectively at all. Stunned, blind rage. That’s where I am.

sestina

(510 posts)
40. What they did to Alex Pretti
Mon Jan 26, 2026, 08:55 PM
3 hrs ago

is unforgivable.
The shooting and the lies.
I'm thankful for the statements from this friend and from his parents that tell the world what a caring, peaceful, and beautiful man he was.
My heart hurts for his friends, his family, his coworkers, and the veterans who relied on him for excellent care and comfort.

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