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H2O Man

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17. Recommended.
Fri Dec 19, 2025, 04:19 PM
Dec 19

One of my neighbors is in the medical field. I visited them one summer day, not too many years ago. She and her husband were great people. He seemed to be doing well, and enjoying retirement.

Within a few months FTD had taken a toll. She told me that one day when she returned from a trip to the store, he did not recognize her, and was threatening. Thus he ended up in a nursing home, and died shortly thereafter.

It seems to be happening to more and more people these days. I've talked to my neighbor about it. She said her husband's case was particularly rapid in the decline. There appear to be both genetic and environmental factors involved in the increase of adults getting this at younger ages than previously.

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OK, some enterprising reporter needs to track down all of Trmp's former dentists and interview them at length. nt eppur_se_muova Dec 19 #1
Wow. You are a saint in order to deal w/ people like this & I wave my hat off to you in honor of your patience... SWBTATTReg Dec 19 #2
It is sad, but we as a society have to do better at finding solutions to those who become progressively more violent hlthe2b Dec 19 #3
One could see this coming after the way Reagan and society, in general, slightlv Dec 19 #12
Thanks for validating the turn dementia can take bucolic_frolic Dec 19 #4
I wonder why Nasruddin Dec 19 #8
It's not only anger that could cause the rage at losing one's faculties... slightlv Dec 19 #13
With Trump, it feels like his negative traits PatSeg Dec 19 #15
Narcissists tend to get worse as they age. By then all of their normal friends and family have left them. OMGWTF Dec 19 #18
Yes, that has been my experience for the most part PatSeg Dec 19 #20
Thanks for this canetoad Dec 19 #5
You truly are a great healer, Doctor. Kid Berwyn Dec 19 #6
dang. barbtries Dec 19 #7
I like your slow work-up to the ending. I thought I could hear the "Jaws" melody underneat. erronis Dec 19 #9
You were an angel to have kept his periodontal health in check, lest his dementia would have escalated. John1956PA Dec 19 #10
According to my psychologist, my father cksmithy Dec 19 #11
This, along with Amaryll's thread Tbear Dec 19 #14
Lived to his late 90s? Ugh! WestMichRad Dec 19 #16
I will leave it to you to ask a judge PCIntern Dec 19 #22
LOL! WestMichRad Dec 19 #23
Recommended. H2O Man Dec 19 #17
I wonder if any anti-anxiety drugs were administered to the out of control judge. SleeplessinSoCal Dec 19 #19
My mother seems to be going through the early stages of this - with angry reactions to most any irritation. ihaveaquestion Dec 19 #21
A difficult situation. Good she's not living with you. Joinfortmill Dec 19 #24
K&R spanone Dec 19 #25
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