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slightlv

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12. One could see this coming after the way Reagan and society, in general,
Fri Dec 19, 2025, 03:59 PM
Dec 19

treated mentally unwell individuals in the 1980's, and then too, those afflicted with AIDS in the early days. This country has decided society has a certain "look" and "behavior" and any step outside the bounds of those constraints needs to be put down hard. We're just now getting to the crux of the Baby Boomers all turning elderly and being hit by chronic diseases, in addition to various forms of dementia. We're not ready to cope with this because it's "against our religion" to deal with it. The GOP model is to either shove these people so far into a hole so as to forget they exist, or kill them outright through lack of appropriate medical care. Far from being the shining beacon on the hill, this country is hard... in the way a person addicted to drugs and violence all his life is hard... There is no mercy, no compassion, no caring. In fact, those very words are violence to the maga and gop. It won't stop until we come up with a replacement for laissez faire capitalism, because at it's root it's the issue with every problem we have in the United States. People exist to be exploited. If they can't be exploited, they're "useless eaters" and need to be put down. We can't have decent healthcare because the insurance companies and their shareholders have control of it all for fun and profit... for themselves. Women can't have a decent career without worrying about childcare, or the male idiot down the hall taking credit for all her ideas.

The entire country... and government... has to be completely reimagined and reworked. We have a chance to get it right, but it'll be so hard to accomplish that taking the easy way on some things will be the default mode, I'm afraid. If we do that, we can guarantee we'll be here again in 20-30 years. We HAVE to do the hard work. I'm almost 70, have voted in every election and voted as a Democrat in each of those elections. But I have to wonder, does the democratic party have the stamina to start AND finish the hard work that's ahead of us?

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OK, some enterprising reporter needs to track down all of Trmp's former dentists and interview them at length. nt eppur_se_muova Dec 19 #1
Wow. You are a saint in order to deal w/ people like this & I wave my hat off to you in honor of your patience... SWBTATTReg Dec 19 #2
It is sad, but we as a society have to do better at finding solutions to those who become progressively more violent hlthe2b Dec 19 #3
One could see this coming after the way Reagan and society, in general, slightlv Dec 19 #12
Thanks for validating the turn dementia can take bucolic_frolic Dec 19 #4
I wonder why Nasruddin Dec 19 #8
It's not only anger that could cause the rage at losing one's faculties... slightlv Dec 19 #13
With Trump, it feels like his negative traits PatSeg Dec 19 #15
Narcissists tend to get worse as they age. By then all of their normal friends and family have left them. OMGWTF Dec 19 #18
Yes, that has been my experience for the most part PatSeg Dec 19 #20
Thanks for this canetoad Dec 19 #5
You truly are a great healer, Doctor. Kid Berwyn Dec 19 #6
dang. barbtries Dec 19 #7
I like your slow work-up to the ending. I thought I could hear the "Jaws" melody underneat. erronis Dec 19 #9
You were an angel to have kept his periodontal health in check, lest his dementia would have escalated. John1956PA Dec 19 #10
According to my psychologist, my father cksmithy Dec 19 #11
This, along with Amaryll's thread Tbear Dec 19 #14
Lived to his late 90s? Ugh! WestMichRad Dec 19 #16
I will leave it to you to ask a judge PCIntern Dec 19 #22
LOL! WestMichRad Dec 19 #23
Recommended. H2O Man Dec 19 #17
I wonder if any anti-anxiety drugs were administered to the out of control judge. SleeplessinSoCal Dec 19 #19
My mother seems to be going through the early stages of this - with angry reactions to most any irritation. ihaveaquestion Dec 19 #21
A difficult situation. Good she's not living with you. Joinfortmill Dec 19 #24
K&R spanone Dec 19 #25
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