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hlthe2b

(113,021 posts)
3. It is sad, but we as a society have to do better at finding solutions to those who become progressively more violent
Fri Dec 19, 2025, 02:15 PM
Dec 19

with this and other forms of dementia. With Medicaid cuts fewer and fewer can be placed in appropriate long term care facilities (assuming any are staffed with trained people to handle them--dementia care centers not unexpectedly cater to the highly insured or wealthy patients). So these combined problems mean some of them may end up becoming violent with spouse or other family or homeless and violent on the street.

There is likewise a wrong assumption--especially prevalent among family members--that these patients can be medicated successfully to prevent the progressive lack of control and violence that IN SOME manifests. Well, maybe. But not always especially with structural progressive brain disease like FTD.

Our society is rapidly becoming a failed one for our people and communities. Can it be turned around? Maybe.

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OK, some enterprising reporter needs to track down all of Trmp's former dentists and interview them at length. nt eppur_se_muova Dec 19 #1
Wow. You are a saint in order to deal w/ people like this & I wave my hat off to you in honor of your patience... SWBTATTReg Dec 19 #2
It is sad, but we as a society have to do better at finding solutions to those who become progressively more violent hlthe2b Dec 19 #3
One could see this coming after the way Reagan and society, in general, slightlv Dec 19 #12
Thanks for validating the turn dementia can take bucolic_frolic Dec 19 #4
I wonder why Nasruddin Dec 19 #8
It's not only anger that could cause the rage at losing one's faculties... slightlv Dec 19 #13
With Trump, it feels like his negative traits PatSeg Dec 19 #15
Narcissists tend to get worse as they age. By then all of their normal friends and family have left them. OMGWTF Dec 19 #18
Yes, that has been my experience for the most part PatSeg Dec 19 #20
Thanks for this canetoad Dec 19 #5
You truly are a great healer, Doctor. Kid Berwyn Dec 19 #6
dang. barbtries Dec 19 #7
I like your slow work-up to the ending. I thought I could hear the "Jaws" melody underneat. erronis Dec 19 #9
You were an angel to have kept his periodontal health in check, lest his dementia would have escalated. John1956PA Dec 19 #10
According to my psychologist, my father cksmithy Dec 19 #11
This, along with Amaryll's thread Tbear Dec 19 #14
Lived to his late 90s? Ugh! WestMichRad Dec 19 #16
I will leave it to you to ask a judge PCIntern Dec 19 #22
LOL! WestMichRad Dec 19 #23
Recommended. H2O Man Dec 19 #17
I wonder if any anti-anxiety drugs were administered to the out of control judge. SleeplessinSoCal Dec 19 #19
My mother seems to be going through the early stages of this - with angry reactions to most any irritation. ihaveaquestion Dec 19 #21
A difficult situation. Good she's not living with you. Joinfortmill Dec 19 #24
K&R spanone Dec 19 #25
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