General Discussion

And I am sorry to hear of the poster's difficulty.

Also willing to stand with the original OP - in postulating that if this was any sort of systemic or systematic occurrence - we would be hearing about it from thousands upon thousands of skewered recipients, screaming bloody murder, - not only on DU, but everywhere else under the sun. Which leads me to conclude - that it is in all likelihood not happening.

You are, however, completely free to come to your own conclusions ... (either with evidence, or without)