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181. No, it's not projection

Fri Jan 17, 2025, 04:13 PM

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By me or anyone else here confronting you about it. You asked a shitty question that had nothing to do with the grief being expressed about somebody dying. I'm sure you know what grief means.

You ought to feel badly about it. It's your issue you think it's no big deal.

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My girlfriend's husband died tonight from Covid [View all] samplegirl 21 hrs ago OP

Was he vaccinated? DURHAM D 21 hrs ago #1

One of my neighbors was extremely sick from Covid pneumonia. Irish_Dem 21 hrs ago #6

I recently tested positive for covid. DURHAM D 21 hrs ago #8

I had nine vaxes so far, got covid in Nov. Irish_Dem 21 hrs ago #9

Hope your cholesterol gets right. nt DURHAM D 21 hrs ago #10

Tnx. Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #117

Gracious! I hope your cholesterol goes down. LoisB 21 hrs ago #13

Same here. Ms. Toad 20 hrs ago #24

Look into Novavax for your next shot IbogaProject 19 hrs ago #52

I'm not fond of the risk profile. Ms. Toad 19 hrs ago #57

Ohhh, boy. : ( Good luck! electric_blue68 17 hrs ago #70

Just relaying my expierience IbogaProject 9 hrs ago #138

After the first one or two, I had no soreness. Ms. Toad 8 hrs ago #161

My work manager has that very same spike since her COVID bout. John1956PA 20 hrs ago #26

When did she have covid? Is she taking a statin? Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #120

Glad to hear bdamomma 20 hrs ago #30

Yes I have all of the vaxes. Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #119

Good luck! In case something my doc taught me last month might help, here are two studies on almonds and cholesterol. mahina 19 hrs ago #53

And organic food ananda 14 hrs ago #112

Thank you! Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #118

Good samplegirl 18 hrs ago #65

Dang! Good luck on getting normal numbers again! electric_blue68 17 hrs ago #68

It is up to the meds, I already have a strict diet and exercise every day. Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #116

Just a note... lonely bird 8 hrs ago #164

Interesting, I did not know that. Irish_Dem 6 hrs ago #170

Yeah lonely bird 3 hrs ago #183

I am at 8 vaccinations LetMyPeopleVote 17 hrs ago #72

Same here Sundance1220 13 hrs ago #113

Were we told in the stacks 9 hrs ago #155

It was my understanding that they hope that some day it will be like the flu shot LetMyPeopleVote 8 hrs ago #156

The flu shot is like this. in the stacks 8 hrs ago #157

Right. They came out with a newer, reformulated booster a few months ago due to the new strains. Keep up I guess? Evolve Dammit 1 hr ago #194

I was miserably sick and am vaccinated AkFemDem 12 hrs ago #130

Some are saying those who were vaccinated are now getting sick and dying. Is that true? Anyone else heard this? Jit423 19 hrs ago #61

The vaxes saved one of my friends. Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #115

Not a "now" thing AkFemDem 11 hrs ago #131

Not much info because it is a reich-wing myth promulgated by self-styled "purebloods" Bernardo de La Paz 11 hrs ago #132

It's the same stupid mindset as religious zealots mdbl 9 hrs ago #154

There are a small number who have a bad reaction to any shot. More than 8 billion doses have been given worldwide. mahina 11 hrs ago #133

Thanks for this thorough and scientific response nt MadameButterfly 4 hrs ago #180

Vaccinated people have always gotten sick and died. Mariana 8 hrs ago #160

Yes, the vaccine lowers your chances of severe disease and death significanrtly but is not bulletproof protection LymphocyteLover 5 hrs ago #176

This message was self-deleted by its author samplegirl 21 hrs ago #15

I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine. AllyCat 20 hrs ago #23

Unfortunately, covid vaccines lose much of their effectiveness against infection after 6 months. SunSeeker 20 hrs ago #46

My wife and I caught COVID b4 Christmas. I was due to be vaccinated, she had been vaccinated at Costco in Oct. C Moon 20 hrs ago #49

I'm so sorry. Scrivener7 21 hrs ago #2

omg that's horrible... so very sorry... FirstLight 21 hrs ago #3

66 samplegirl 21 hrs ago #16

Oh, gosh. Much to young to die that way Iris 20 hrs ago #48

A friend of mine was just diagnosed with cancer. Ms. Toad 20 hrs ago #28

I'm sorry about your dad stollen 19 hrs ago #59

I'm sorry for your loss... rasputin1952 18 hrs ago #66

Yeah, My sister picked the place, and it was because of her own greed, IMO FirstLight 17 hrs ago #86

So sorry to hear that. Awful. Some places are worse than just dying at home. If only "house calls" were still a thing. Evolve Dammit 1 hr ago #195

What sad news! I am so sorry for your friend and her family. Diamond_Dog 21 hrs ago #4

I called her as I did to check on her samplegirl 21 hrs ago #17

I'm so damn sorry... Hekate 21 hrs ago #5

The damage Trump did and will do is incalculable. Irish_Dem 21 hrs ago #7

It's nonstop samplegirl 21 hrs ago #19

Everything Trump touches turns to shit stollen 19 hrs ago #60

Can you do some artwork for your friend? Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #114

What a beautiful thing to suggest. Her artwork is indeed imbued with love, niyad 10 hrs ago #134

Yes I can feel all you describe when I look at her work. Irish_Dem 9 hrs ago #147

I am so sorry, samplegirl. Please convey my sympathies to your friend. I agree with you on LoisB 21 hrs ago #11

Ty samplegirl 21 hrs ago #20

Understandably. n/t rasputin1952 20 hrs ago #50

I understand. LoisB 19 hrs ago #62

So sorry sample girl, gab13by13 21 hrs ago #12

I just got a Covid booster and a flu shot yesterday. CentralMass 21 hrs ago #18

I am so sorry to hear this. yellow dahlia 21 hrs ago #14

Even more horrible when you had to listen to your neighbor, tell you, he lost his friend samplegirl 21 hrs ago #21

It's not trump's incompetence; it's his malevolence. LuvLoogie 20 hrs ago #27

He is extraordinarily competent Cirsium 5 hrs ago #175

I'm very sorry. My brother died of covid at the end of November. rsdsharp 21 hrs ago #22

I'm so sorry for your loss. Tragic illness that AllyCat 20 hrs ago #25

Medical facilities have almost completely stopped using transmission reduction protocols. Ms. Toad 20 hrs ago #32

Your girlfriend's husband? SocialDemocrat61 20 hrs ago #29

Girlfriend, like: "friend who is a girl" ColinC 20 hrs ago #31

The term usually refers to SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #79

It has been used both ways, especially by those of a specific generation ColinC 12 hrs ago #122

Ok SocialDemocrat61 12 hrs ago #123

We all knew what SG meant. And the fact the girlfriend has a husband gives it more context. Irish_Dem 9 hrs ago #150

Some women refer to their female friends as girlfriends JI7 20 hrs ago #33

Ok SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #84

Merriam webster: girlfriend: 1: A woman who is a friend. niyad 17 hrs ago #90

Never heard of it. SocialDemocrat61 16 hrs ago #99

What part of "samplegirl" don't you understand? soldierant 20 hrs ago #37

So? SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #74

Please delete your appallingly insensitive post, and apologize. niyad 17 hrs ago #78

You're free to report it SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #80

Really? Most of the rest of us understood it perfectly. niyad 17 hrs ago #87

Most is not all SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #88

Continuing to defend the indefensible is not helping you. niyad 17 hrs ago #89

With whom? SocialDemocrat61 16 hrs ago #98

English is your first language? The post seemed clear to everyone else. Judi Lynn 16 hrs ago #107

Thanks for the advice SocialDemocrat61 12 hrs ago #128

I admit that I thought the same thing at first. Cowpunk 8 hrs ago #158

That is just bizarre to me. niyad 8 hrs ago #159

Same here, first thought was that his gf's ex died. Pompoy 7 hrs ago #166

Which I reported JonAndKatePlusABird 15 hrs ago #109

Well good for you SocialDemocrat61 12 hrs ago #127

Because women have been traditionally judged and associated with their husbands and boyfrineds obamanut2012 2 hrs ago #187

I would call it a cultural thing opposed to a language thing. defacto7 1 hr ago #191

Ignore them. If the post said "My friend's husband...", itwould have been much clearer. Wonder Why 9 hrs ago #135

Yes it would have SocialDemocrat61 9 hrs ago #139

Yes the comment was in very bad taste and poor judgment. Irish_Dem 9 hrs ago #152

What in the heck obamanut2012 20 hrs ago #42

Maybe SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #77

Merriam webster: girlfriend: 1 (as in FIRST definition) A WOMAN WHO IS A FRIEND. niyad 17 hrs ago #91

Never heard someone use SocialDemocrat61 16 hrs ago #101

Keep trying. We need the laughs. niyad 16 hrs ago #103

Ok. I once shot an elephant in my pajamas SocialDemocrat61 16 hrs ago #104

Groucho Marx. niyad 16 hrs ago #106

Lol. Pompoy 7 hrs ago #168

Guess what, I have JonAndKatePlusABird 15 hrs ago #110

Yes SocialDemocrat61 12 hrs ago #126

Perhaps you are young? TBF 7 hrs ago #165

Thank you SocialDemocrat61 7 hrs ago #167

That was not funny, it was mean FullySupportDems 20 hrs ago #43

It is not funny. There are a couple of comments that are insensitive and childish while our friend, Deuxcents 19 hrs ago #54

It sure would be cool if some apologies happened FullySupportDems 19 hrs ago #56

Considering the defensiveness and justifying of said posts, please niyad 16 hrs ago #97

Sadly, you are right FullySupportDems 1 hr ago #190

Not meant to be funny SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #81

Keep defending the indefensible. You are not helping yourself. niyad 17 hrs ago #93

I don't really care SocialDemocrat61 16 hrs ago #102

If that were true, you would not keep defending your posts. niyad 16 hrs ago #105

You care so little that you posted to tell us how little you care JonAndKatePlusABird 15 hrs ago #111

No SocialDemocrat61 12 hrs ago #125

I'm kind of curious as to why you don't care FullySupportDems 9 hrs ago #140

No I was confused about the usage SocialDemocrat61 9 hrs ago #142

You didn't answer my question FullySupportDems 7 hrs ago #169

I asked a question SocialDemocrat61 5 hrs ago #177

No, it's not projection FullySupportDems 3 hrs ago #181

Yes it is SocialDemocrat61 3 hrs ago #184

You asked if her friend was cheating on her dying husband FullySupportDems 2 hrs ago #185

Your opinion and issue SocialDemocrat61 2 hrs ago #186

Yes I'm aware u don't care FullySupportDems 2 hrs ago #188

Bye. Have a nice day SocialDemocrat61 2 hrs ago #189

I am embarrassed for you tbh obamanut2012 9 hrs ago #145

Good for you SocialDemocrat61 9 hrs ago #149

Really? n/t rasputin1952 20 hrs ago #47

Your post is simply beyond the pale. Please delete, and apologize. niyad 17 hrs ago #75

Sorry SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #82

No, it is not. niyad 17 hrs ago #83

It is to me SocialDemocrat61 17 hrs ago #85

I'm laughing... PCIntern 12 hrs ago #121

I know SocialDemocrat61 12 hrs ago #124

Back in the day, women called their female friends "girlfriends." Irish_Dem 9 hrs ago #148

Thank you SocialDemocrat61 9 hrs ago #151

Good grief MustLoveBeagles 6 hrs ago #173

As has been explained SocialDemocrat61 5 hrs ago #178

Gawd how awful. yorkster 20 hrs ago #34

Girlfriend's husband? Would I be presumptive to ask a question. NotHardly 20 hrs ago #35

What the hell is wrong with you? orangecrush 19 hrs ago #51

A smiley face? A smiley face, in your incredibly boorish, rude post? niyad 17 hrs ago #94

Girlfriend meaning friend MustLoveBeagles 6 hrs ago #172

So sorry, samplegirl , May his memories of him be a blessing to his wife and you. debm55 20 hrs ago #36

My sympathy bdamomma 20 hrs ago #38

Deepest condolences to you & your friend. SheltieLover 20 hrs ago #39

My brother checked out during the orange bastard's first tour LilElf70 20 hrs ago #40

So sad. Steve was a good guy JohnnyRingo 20 hrs ago #41

Keith samplegirl 18 hrs ago #67

Oh yeah. I knew that. JohnnyRingo 17 hrs ago #69

So sad... rasputin1952 20 hrs ago #44

I'm glad she has a nice friend like you samplegirl FullySupportDems 20 hrs ago #45

I lost my wife three years ago, when Covid was just starting... William Gustafson 19 hrs ago #55

I am so sorry. Cassidy 9 hrs ago #144

I'm so sorry Samplegirl JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #58

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Aren't we pleasant. sheshe2 18 hrs ago #64

JFC, you mean there was something worse than some of the appalling posts niyad 17 hrs ago #92

Yup. It was bad. sheshe2 17 hrs ago #95

Yikes. Unfortunately, there are still a number of truly disgusting posts niyad 16 hrs ago #96

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Condolences for her, and her family. A {hug} for you. electric_blue68 17 hrs ago #71

I am sorry for your friend's loss LetMyPeopleVote 17 hrs ago #73

My dear SG, holding you and your friend in love and light in this horrific time. niyad 17 hrs ago #76

I am so sorry for your friend's loss. sheshe2 16 hrs ago #108

I'm so sorry for your loss.(((hugs))) sueh 12 hrs ago #129

I'm so sorry samplegirl radical noodle 9 hrs ago #136

I'm so very sorry for your loss Quiet Em 9 hrs ago #137

Your girlfriend's husband Clouds Passing 9 hrs ago #141

Such a sad and needless loss. pandr32 9 hrs ago #143

Covid was the 4th leading cause of death in the U.S. in 2024. Cassidy 9 hrs ago #146

My sympathies. CrispyQ 9 hrs ago #153

No it's not Evolve Dammit 1 hr ago #192

So sorry Deep State Witch 8 hrs ago #162

I've had Covid 5 times Jarqui 8 hrs ago #163

The ones we got from the gov't were expired. I guess they have extended the dating and kits are still good? Evolve Dammit 1 hr ago #193

I've heard they're probably still pretty good after the expiry date Jarqui 42 min ago #196

Yes. I'm not sure what's going on. Evolve Dammit 19 min ago #197

After reading all the the responses to this thread, I am even more afraid of what is to come. Katinfl 6 hrs ago #171

The Covid Pandemic probably won't return. maxsolomon 5 hrs ago #174

I'm so sorry samplegirl Nittersing 5 hrs ago #179

So sorry! It's beyond the pale the red idiots voted once again for this menace. Forgetting all about covid PortTack 3 hrs ago #182