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FirstLight

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86. Yeah, My sister picked the place, and it was because of her own greed, IMO

Reply to rasputin1952 (Reply #66)

Fri Jan 17, 2025, 02:23 AM

12 hrs ago

She didn't want dad's prolonged care to eat up our inheritance... The place had billing and management issues from the get-go. And the staff was lazy at best, not even really overworked, just didn't care enough to make the effort.

I hated visiting him there and the food they served was a fucking joke. We tried to get them to give h8im better options, even went out of our way to buy/provide things he liked because they "said" they would give it to him. The staff put it in their refrigerator instead and they disappeard ...

I'm glad he's crossed over, he didn't deserve that at all. His last year after Mom passed was hell for him, and even with dementia, he was aware enough to know he wasn't home or in a "normal" place...

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I'm sorry for your loss... rasputin1952 12 hrs ago #66

Yeah, My sister picked the place, and it was because of her own greed, IMO FirstLight 12 hrs ago #86

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Girlfriend, like: "friend who is a girl" ColinC 15 hrs ago #31

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