General Discussion

I get what you are saying but this has been bubbling beneath the surface for a very long
time. It may be in their nature so to speak. A little blast from the past that holds true
today. The old becomes new again and again and again.

Sorry, I did not see your reply soon enough. Yes, I have told every one of them. The only
one listening is my niece, she understands but the rest are just going to keep trying anyway.
Especially dear old mom, it is her son, and she will not let him go ever. He has been playing
for years and she knows it. None of them have told him I know yet because they know me.
If he comes to me truly wanting help I will help according to my rules period. If he comes to
me confrontational I will absolutely let him know exactly where I stand on the issue and what
it will take to get my help. I will also make sure he knows for sure that if he screws it up, I am
done. I have a life I am still living, and he is not going to drag me down with him.