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ismnotwasm

(42,510 posts)
28. Yup
Sun Feb 9, 2014, 05:20 PM
Feb 2014

I don't download or watch entire movies, but I can't honestly criticize what I know nothing about. The areas of porn I find disturbing are the increasing bizarre fetishism-- the kind that can cause harm, the commercial aspect of it,a the absolutely blatant racism, and the popular "teenage slut" and variations of that theme.

I can watch a certain amount of porn even if I disagree with the pornography industry because it's NOT erotic. Very little sensuality, it focuses a lot on degradation. I get bored fast. I went through some male gay porn recently and found some of the same aspects of degradation, and focus on underage, but not nearly in the amount of hetero, or even Gay women. (The largest demographic that purchases porn of Gay women are young males, the porn industry responded accordingly)

It's too bad really. Pornography doesn't have to degrade or objectify-- it could simply tell sexual adventure story. But the way society is set up, is people pay to watch sexual humiliation, with women bearing the brunt of it. It causes great harm to the sexual imagination in my opinion.

I was reading some old, but decent erotica recently and some horror porn and thought now this is what genre writing is about. (Horror porn cracks me up--in that darkly ironic way. It also doesn't try to hide misogyny.)

Even "The Story of O" while it doesn't tell a moral tale, tells a story of a women who tried to rule her sexuality through submission, which ended sadly in her case.

Apparently we can't replicate stories, or usually, even eroticism in movies.

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How is this Not Against The Law? Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #1
The college took action ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #2
yeah, I see. Reading the whole thing now. Edited my reply. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #3
Sexism, misogyny, rape references and blatant homophobia ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #4
the college is handling it. Criminal Charges should be brought. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #6
Dartmouth's response ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #5
I guarantee the guy is not expelled, and nothing goes on his academic record, and he Squinch Feb 2014 #8
exactly. not even good enough. need to know the name and the punishment. dartmouth seabeyond Feb 2014 #9
I have heard that, but I really think that many, many colleges are cesspools that way. Squinch Feb 2014 #11
yes. the rape chant from yale. and on and on. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #12
Oh, that was so nauseating.. Squinch Feb 2014 #13
exactly. yes. that is how i felt also. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #14
Yep..Don't you love the way HE gets the fun "use" of her, while SHE gets labeled a "whore"? whathehell Feb 2014 #36
Don't you wish you could just find that woman and give her a place Squinch Feb 2014 #41
Yes, she certainly deserves that, but to be honest, I'm more of a fighter than a nurturer, whathehell Feb 2014 #42
I saw that in action a number of times when I was in college, many many years ago. Squinch Feb 2014 #43
And he'll run for congress someday ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #21
OR work on Wall Street. Squinch Feb 2014 #22
As many have before him YoungDemCA Feb 2014 #31
Hey, they're "taking appropriate actions" malthaussen Feb 2014 #18
Well, I was being far too nice I Suppose ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #19
Your question above is the key one, I think. malthaussen Feb 2014 #23
In this case ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #25
You see much modern porn? malthaussen Feb 2014 #26
Yup ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #28
Even the good Marquis is interesting... malthaussen Feb 2014 #29
... ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #34
How is it he can post all that nastiness about her online, but he gets to remain anonymous? CrispyQ Feb 2014 #32
jsut the men reenacting there porn on every day women, cause that is what sex is to them. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #7
Exactly my impression, this is a fantasy siligut Feb 2014 #10
maybe, had more of the feel of a -man- Scorned .... to me. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #15
Like the Steubenville rape that was actualized? siligut Feb 2014 #16
the worst for me is this school produces our Future Lawmakers. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #17
"How it makes monsters of men." CrispyQ Feb 2014 #33
Maybe neither the charm nor character... nor desire? malthaussen Feb 2014 #24
Ew that's what I was thinking ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #20
yes. these guys are so addicted and time consumed with their porn, it is a part of their everyday seabeyond Feb 2014 #27
"Boys will be boys" YoungDemCA Feb 2014 #30
a little more info. they say, he is off campus. seabeyond Feb 2014 #35
Truly sickening...I think she should TRANSFER to another school and let Dartmouth know why... whathehell Feb 2014 #37
She may be frightened ismnotwasm Feb 2014 #38
She may be whathehell Feb 2014 #39
Honestly, what an assbackwards misogynist creep. AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #40
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