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JI7

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13. yes, there are many women who prefer a one nighter
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 05:52 PM
Feb 2014

what i notice is guys who do the whole pua and look for other ways to impress women often attack women who do want a one nighter.

they start seeing the guy she was with as treating her badly and then they make assumptions about how women don't really want nice guys and other crap.

they make assumptions about how women are certain way and guys are certain ways.

when there are guys who prefer committed relationships and women who don't. and the other way around also.

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a man would have had a much better chance simply suggesting a one nighter than playing games. seabeyond Feb 2014 #1
so, i left off my conclusion. seabeyond Feb 2014 #2
yes, there are many women who prefer a one nighter JI7 Feb 2014 #13
Women looking for one night stands generally prefer safe venues eridani Feb 2014 #28
"The PUA subculture is full of assholes, misogynists, and sociopaths..." On the Road Feb 2014 #3
That's how I see it. redqueen Feb 2014 #4
ah, but these young men are constantly told they are exactly entitled to that, thru peers, media, seabeyond Feb 2014 #5
I don't give them a pass, then. redqueen Feb 2014 #6
not a pass. seabeyond Feb 2014 #7
Society is feeding both boys and girls a load of crap. Sad. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #9
yup. seabeyond Feb 2014 #11
I don't see it as the same at all. redqueen Feb 2014 #18
while i was away there was a study, school age kids and how boys had more verbal, voice time. seabeyond Feb 2014 #22
maybe what you are trying to say in regards to what rq is saying Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #25
I really wish people wouldn't slag sociopaths Shivering Jemmy Feb 2014 #29
If they abuse others they deserve it. redqueen Feb 2014 #30
I don't want to derail the thread Shivering Jemmy Feb 2014 #31
Such an important point: FIRST this "movement" is a scam against the men who pay Squinch Feb 2014 #8
They need to quit building themselves Up by putting another Down. imo. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #10
But they also need to stop bestowing their respect on the Squinch Feb 2014 #12
Yes. The Admiration of Accomplishments needs to be redefined. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #14
The admiration of actual accomplishments would be great! Squinch Feb 2014 #15
How did you help save the planet today? What did you to do recycle/reuse/reclaim? Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #16
And it's just fine to like "My Little Pony." Did you read about that utter tragedy? Squinch Feb 2014 #17
What tragedy is that? nt redqueen Feb 2014 #19
Don't read it if you want to have a nice night: Squinch Feb 2014 #20
This fucking stupidass gender madness has to end. NOW. redqueen Feb 2014 #21
I know. But we both know it's going to take longer than that. Squinch Feb 2014 #23
of course, it is Just Fine to absolutely Love My Little Pony ... Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #24
Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #27
Speaking of PUA... NuclearDem Feb 2014 #26
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