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Squinch

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8. Such an important point: FIRST this "movement" is a scam against the men who pay
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 04:31 PM
Feb 2014

money to be "taught." It also hurts the men who buy into the PUA schtick by magnifying their self esteem problems: "I took this course that makes other guys successful in picking up women, and I STILL can't pick up a woman."

So, yes, it hurts women in the longer run by creating hostility toward women and feelings of entitlement among the men who listen to the PUA crap. But before it gets around to that, it hurts men.

And again, I say, men need to stop treating each other so badly.

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a man would have had a much better chance simply suggesting a one nighter than playing games. seabeyond Feb 2014 #1
so, i left off my conclusion. seabeyond Feb 2014 #2
yes, there are many women who prefer a one nighter JI7 Feb 2014 #13
Women looking for one night stands generally prefer safe venues eridani Feb 2014 #28
"The PUA subculture is full of assholes, misogynists, and sociopaths..." On the Road Feb 2014 #3
That's how I see it. redqueen Feb 2014 #4
ah, but these young men are constantly told they are exactly entitled to that, thru peers, media, seabeyond Feb 2014 #5
I don't give them a pass, then. redqueen Feb 2014 #6
not a pass. seabeyond Feb 2014 #7
Society is feeding both boys and girls a load of crap. Sad. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #9
yup. seabeyond Feb 2014 #11
I don't see it as the same at all. redqueen Feb 2014 #18
while i was away there was a study, school age kids and how boys had more verbal, voice time. seabeyond Feb 2014 #22
maybe what you are trying to say in regards to what rq is saying Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #25
I really wish people wouldn't slag sociopaths Shivering Jemmy Feb 2014 #29
If they abuse others they deserve it. redqueen Feb 2014 #30
I don't want to derail the thread Shivering Jemmy Feb 2014 #31
Such an important point: FIRST this "movement" is a scam against the men who pay Squinch Feb 2014 #8
They need to quit building themselves Up by putting another Down. imo. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #10
But they also need to stop bestowing their respect on the Squinch Feb 2014 #12
Yes. The Admiration of Accomplishments needs to be redefined. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #14
The admiration of actual accomplishments would be great! Squinch Feb 2014 #15
How did you help save the planet today? What did you to do recycle/reuse/reclaim? Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #16
And it's just fine to like "My Little Pony." Did you read about that utter tragedy? Squinch Feb 2014 #17
What tragedy is that? nt redqueen Feb 2014 #19
Don't read it if you want to have a nice night: Squinch Feb 2014 #20
This fucking stupidass gender madness has to end. NOW. redqueen Feb 2014 #21
I know. But we both know it's going to take longer than that. Squinch Feb 2014 #23
of course, it is Just Fine to absolutely Love My Little Pony ... Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #24
Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #27
Speaking of PUA... NuclearDem Feb 2014 #26
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