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TreasonousBastard

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7. It's a very serious topic to men...
Thu Dec 26, 2013, 02:34 PM
Dec 2013

maybe just not here.

"To be a man..." doesn't simply mean kicking ass and hiding tears, although that's a small part of it, but it also means solving the problem instead of complaining about it, assaying truth, pursuing justice, and protecting the weaker men and women in society. Among many other things that are not at all unique to men.

It's more like being an adult of any gender.

Now, the video, like so many of these, doesn't even begin to address the changing roles of men and women in society and how boys are often being left in the wind with sorry-ass platitudes instead of direction.

Women have made great strides recently, and that's a good thing, but while we've been working hard on bringing women into the 21st century, we haven't come up with any solutions to boys, having lost the model of the two-parent working father family, will go on with life. Employment prospects are pretty dim with all those primarily male construction, manufacturing and mining jobs gone. Smart boys can be directed toward engineering and such, but what about the less endowed ones who would in the past be mechanics or steelworkers with jobs good enough to pay for a family? How are we raising our boys to deal with this dismal future they may face? Are we preparing them for a life where their wives are the breadwinners in sales jobs or law offices?

At least they have basketball.

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I have not and would NEVER tell a boy to be a man for any reason. Not his role. He is a boy. Not man seabeyond Dec 2013 #1
I know you wouldn't ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #2
i am home. i saw this a week ago. breaks my heart. tears, for these babies. babies. seabeyond Dec 2013 #8
They are afraid ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #18
I guess this just isn't a topic of interest to men. redqueen Dec 2013 #3
sad, but at this point to xpost this to GD would probably been seen as flamebait. sad. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #4
It's already posted there. redqueen Dec 2013 #5
oh dear, I can't keep up. Sorry. I will look at the thread ... Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #6
it was already in GD last week adn sunk like a stone. i think i might have been the only one to seabeyond Dec 2013 #10
even sadder, maybe. *sigh* Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #13
It's a very serious topic to men... TreasonousBastard Dec 2013 #7
This is about something far more fundamental than jobs. redqueen Dec 2013 #11
I don't know why that's "alarming"... TreasonousBastard Dec 2013 #14
It's more like being an adult of any gender.... "protecting the weaker " seabeyond Dec 2013 #12
There is some woman who has been writing about this a lot... TreasonousBastard Dec 2013 #15
ya. i take note of that. be a man, seems to be the agenda, not, take care of our boys. seabeyond Dec 2013 #9
I think that is exactly what to "be a man" usually means, when used in American society. iemitsu Dec 2013 #16
This about damage ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #17
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