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ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
13. "borderline personalities" - boy, did you nail the last 7 years
Sun Apr 28, 2013, 05:27 PM
Apr 2013

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of my life. . . .

and your statement:

" She might be a classic. And let me assure you, there's absolutely no way ANYONE can get along with or accommodate those people with any success"

is also bang on -

A woman ineligible for entry into Canada approached me almost ten years ago to find her a property in Canada which I did.

I did not know she was ineligible at the time, found out later.

Introduced her to a few friends of mine that I'd had some of them for decades. Within a year or two, they were no longer my friends, they were "hers".

Ended up living on her property 2 years later, her fiance/boyfriend helped move me into a trailer she had allowed me to store there (a 30+ acre farm).

Shortly afterwards, he departed, and a marriage suggestion popped up I almost went for, not to live with her, but on the property.

Went so far as to get a marriage licence, but by the time the licence arrived, I had decided that I did not want to be tied to this women.

All hell broke loose, - she cut off my hydro, chased any friends/visitors I had, and trashed my reputation all over town.

She kept telling people after that she wanted me to move out of there, - well recently - I did.

My belongings are still there, and she is doing everything she can to stop me from getting them.

Over $3000 spent on lawyers so far to handle legal issues she created, more for related expenses, bought a home (an unexpected inheritance allowed me to do that) and so on -

She ain't letting go - If she had any sense at all, she would back off with the legal garbage, give me easy access to remove my belongings, but that is not the way these people work.

But I be preaching to the choir methinks.

I hope the OP pays attention to your last comment.

"So count your blessings with a clear conscience"

I am!!!

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My God Are People Really That Vile? [View all] Trunk Monkey Aug 2012 OP
as someone who constantly overanalyzes everything...I can see why you would wonder nadine_mn Aug 2012 #1
You appear to have run into someones rich fantasy life. bemildred Aug 2012 #2
Away from the internet I’m a pretty reclusive person Trunk Monkey Aug 2012 #3
Going online to discuss something among cyber friends is, I think, a wonderfully healthy way IrishAyes Sep 2014 #19
Just Because She Can goodword Sep 2012 #4
I find the more I know people I don't tend to like them very much. LeftofObama Sep 2012 #5
observations sweetexile Jul 2014 #17
You and she have divurgent philosophies. no_hypocrisy Sep 2012 #6
The Facebook really brings out the best in people, dudnit? Shagbark Hickory Nov 2012 #7
That's really weird. Dash87 Dec 2012 #8
I'm not sure but Shankapotomus Jan 2013 #9
To be honest I never thought of that NT Trunk Monkey Jan 2013 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Feb 2013 #11
From what I read here, IrishAyes Apr 2013 #12
"borderline personalities" - boy, did you nail the last 7 years ConcernedCanuk Apr 2013 #13
Don't mistake this as male-bashing; I actually like most guys, having had brothers. IrishAyes Sep 2014 #20
Yeah, and if she hasn't already done the honers, I'd block her 47of74 Sep 2014 #18
There is nothing good about facebook jimmyolsenblues May 2013 #14
I disagree with - "There is nothing good about facebook" ConcernedCanuk May 2013 #15
I agree that facebook can be useful for keeping in touch No Vested Interest Sep 2014 #21
Facebook is useless. DavidG_WI Sep 2014 #22
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2013 #16
Loners stockbrokers Sep 2014 #23
? nt steve2470 Sep 2014 #24
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