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of my life. . . .
and your statement:
" She might be a classic. And let me assure you, there's absolutely no way ANYONE can get along with or accommodate those people with any success"
is also bang on -
A woman ineligible for entry into Canada approached me almost ten years ago to find her a property in Canada which I did.
I did not know she was ineligible at the time, found out later.
Introduced her to a few friends of mine that I'd had some of them for decades. Within a year or two, they were no longer my friends, they were "hers".
Ended up living on her property 2 years later, her fiance/boyfriend helped move me into a trailer she had allowed me to store there (a 30+ acre farm).
Shortly afterwards, he departed, and a marriage suggestion popped up I almost went for, not to live with her, but on the property.
Went so far as to get a marriage licence, but by the time the licence arrived, I had decided that I did not want to be tied to this women.
All hell broke loose, - she cut off my hydro, chased any friends/visitors I had, and trashed my reputation all over town.
She kept telling people after that she wanted me to move out of there, - well recently - I did.
My belongings are still there, and she is doing everything she can to stop me from getting them.
Over $3000 spent on lawyers so far to handle legal issues she created, more for related expenses, bought a home (an unexpected inheritance allowed me to do that) and so on -
She ain't letting go - If she had any sense at all, she would back off with the legal garbage, give me easy access to remove my belongings, but that is not the way these people work.
But I be preaching to the choir methinks.
I hope the OP pays attention to your last comment.
"So count your blessings with a clear conscience"
I am!!!
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