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peacebuzzard

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20. I have an assortment of 4 strays in my house
Tue Dec 19, 2023, 04:44 PM
Dec 2023

and 1 adopted at a shelter. One of the strays I saw multiple times while on a work trip overseas. He was living in a construction site that I knew was due for a total demolition. On my next trip I brought an empty carrier for him and rounded him up with some friends and this stray was vetted and took a 9 hour trip in the carrier under the aircraft seat in front of me. He was and is so docile its hard to believe he truly survived so many years at the construction site. But that was verified by many people. That was 5 years ago and he must be anywhere from 9-11 and has developed a number of health issues. Epilepsy, a heart defect, UTI and really bad teeth are conditions vets have diagnosed and require follow up. Chico is what I named him and he just really hates cars. Barking dogs or just the sight of a dog panics him. Other than that he is so chill. I give him some supplements and he eats very well.
It really hurts me to see him panic so much to get in the car i just don't know if its worth it to get work done on his teeth which is what one of the vets he has seen has suggested. He stays in my office room when I am gone because of the supplements i give him for epilepsy.
I have another cat who is aggressive and his name is Bunny as well. He is certainly part Maine coon and I feel bad about not being able to brush that long coat of his daily. I travel so much and just can't. When I am home its all I can do to clean litter boxes and refresh all the water bowls and take care of my jobs here at home including things for my outside job. Bunny needs special food for gastro problems probably caused by ingesting so much of his fur while trying to groom himself. He needs his own room because of aggression.
The other 3 are cats with aloof personalities that tolerate each other and can be together in the other rooms.
They are my only company when I am at home.
Over a few years I had to make hard decisions with a couple of other cats including one I had for 19 years as my only cat in a pack of 5 dogs. The dogs slowly and consecutively developed health issues and one by one I had to say good bye to them. The 19 year old cat was the last of the pack. By the time it was the end of her time Chico was here and they were best friends. She had kidney issues and starting losing lots of weight until she quit eating and rehydrating her didn't work because of the complexity with a heart condition. She lost all life force and passed away before the vet could make it to my home. None of this was easy for any of my house companions and I think of the circumstances often and miss them all.
I hope your Bunny can still enjoy some more rebounds and life with you, and it so wonderful you provide so well for this kitty.

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I have an 18 and a half year old cat, too. She's okay for now, but I know that she's on limited time now. tblue37 Dec 2023 #1
Enjoy your kitty Marthe48 Dec 2023 #9
I'm so sorry Laurelin Dec 2023 #2
Thank you Marthe48 Dec 2023 #10
I made a deal with my beautiful Penny yellerpup Dec 2023 #3
It's hard Marthe48 Dec 2023 #8
hugs, mommy. yellerpup Dec 2023 #15
Youve done everything beautifully and thats all we can do. Lucky Bunny.... Karadeniz Dec 2023 #4
Thank you Marthe48 Dec 2023 #5
You are doing a beautiful thing alittlelark Dec 2023 #6
soothing music; my cat came right to me while playing this peacebuzzard Dec 2023 #18
Patches picked me, he lived on my back porch for a few months Walleye Dec 2023 #7
You are so kind Marthe48 Dec 2023 #12
I'm looking for a heating pad to put in his little house on the porch Walleye Dec 2023 #13
You can get self-heating mats Marthe48 Dec 2023 #14
Thanks. I'll check it out Walleye Dec 2023 #23
We have a store, part of a chain, called 5 below. I saw self-heating mats there the niyad Dec 2023 #31
My old man (18) stopped eating last year, and dropped from 11 pounds to 7 pounds. Midnight Writer Dec 2023 #11
I was iffy on the dairy products Marthe48 Dec 2023 #16
Sending you lots Goddessartist Dec 2023 #17
I had that relationship with my boy cat Marthe48 Dec 2023 #19
I have an assortment of 4 strays in my house peacebuzzard Dec 2023 #20
You sound so caring Marthe48 Dec 2023 #22
I have used mobile vets peacebuzzard Dec 2023 #24
Just know that you are giving her all your love and caring, and that she is safe. niyad Dec 2023 #21
Thank you Niyad Marthe48 Dec 2023 #25
Hugs Duncanpup Dec 2023 #26
What a wonderful kitty cat parent you are DaBronx Dec 2023 #27
Thank you Marthe48 Dec 2023 #28
My eight year old cat was just saying that about me. marble falls Dec 2023 #29
Thank you, friend kitty! Marthe48 Dec 2023 #30
HAPPY UPDATE Marthe48 Dec 2023 #32
Oh, that is such wonderful news!!! Enjoy this blessing of more time with your niyad Dec 2023 #33
So happy for you! bif Dec 2023 #34
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