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CountAllVotes

(21,217 posts)
Tue Jan 17, 2023, 12:47 PM Jan 2023

Do you have plans for your pets if you were to die? [View all]

I'm in a situation right now where I am having to have legal things taken care of.

I was going to name my only sibling as Executor. I received the envelope from my attorney a week or so again and could not bring myself to open it. Its just sitting here unopened.

I found out that my sibling lied. He won't be "caring" for my cats if I die! They will end up being "barn cats". Huh?

These are indoor pampered pets!

What plans do you have as I don't know what to do! I have not signed anything to appoint my sibling as the executor of my estate (which consists of the house I am living in). Said sibling wants this house and suddenly I get letters signed, With love. Never saw that before!

Giant ugh!

Please share what plans you may have with me. Any advice as to what to do with my tRUMP sibling is greatly appreciated.

Thank you in advance.

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In my will.... 634-5789 Jan 2023 #1
The local "humane" society is the local kill-shelter CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #2
We have a "Friends Forever" plan with our Humane Shelter in Portland CharleyDog Jan 2023 #3
Yes, included in my trust. sinkingfeeling Jan 2023 #4
I adopted a senior cat when I was 74. The shelter marybourg Jan 2023 #5
Its pretty awful CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #6
Those of us with pets worry if something happens to them. Can I tell you a story? Paper Roses Jan 2023 #7
All of them were in a kill shelter CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #11
Yes, we just had our wills updated and made arrangements for our fur babies. redstatebluegirl Jan 2023 #8
Thanks for that CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #24
We made our nieces executors. redstatebluegirl Jan 2023 #33
Personally, I would disinherit that sibling! SheltieLover Jan 2023 #9
I just contacted the kill-shelter I got them all from CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #13
Good! Don't sign that! SheltieLover Jan 2023 #15
Yes, I believe so CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #16
That is unconscionable to lie go you about your kitties! SheltieLover Jan 2023 #17
When my husband died CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #20
Right! No soul. Just greed! SheltieLover Jan 2023 #21
Been thinking about your OP for abit,,,, KarenS Jan 2023 #10
I guess I need to talk to my daughter. ShazzieB Jan 2023 #12
Good point! CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #14
You bring up such an interesting point Chicagogrl1 Jan 2023 #18
My gut says ... CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #19
Then you have your answer Chicagogrl1 Jan 2023 #22
I have appointed a very dear friend as my furbaby's legal guardian in the event niyad Jan 2023 #23
Niyad, what do I look up to find this form? debm55 Jan 2023 #26
Niyad, what do I look up to find this form? debm55 Jan 2023 #27
Google "pet guardianship form for cats". There are a number of sites, and lots niyad Jan 2023 #29
My brother will TexasBushwhacker Jan 2023 #25
I have plans for any surviving pets that I put into place in the early 90's virgdem Jan 2023 #28
I've been looking at the North Shore Animal League CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #31
In our Rebl2 Jan 2023 #30
Yes a long time cat worshipper I_UndergroundPanther Jan 2023 #32
That is great Underground Panther CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #34
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