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hamsterjill

(16,901 posts)
13. Bless your heart - and I do mean that. Thank you.
Wed Dec 17, 2025, 01:19 PM
Wednesday

Thank you for being a responsible animal person. Thank you for taking care of the ones that you have, and for the care you gave this last pony. Horse are very expensive and time consuming. Also - and this is a BIG one - thank you for thinking of others in your time of sorrow by not allowing your resources to go to waste.

You indicate that you are retired, so I'm going to assume you're probably around my age, etc. If my assumption is wrong, please forgive me. I retired last March. I have been involved in animal rescue for the majority of my life. Over the last many years, I've concentrated on cats because they had fewer advocates in my area than dogs do. Two years ago, I realized my lifelong dream of being able to build a cat sanctuary, and we moved all of the cats from TNR colonies, etc. out to a rural piece of property to live out their lives. Because of my age and my committed responsibilities to the ones that we brought here, I refuse to take any new ones in. Some people understand; others don't. But it is a very real concern for me that I be able to see this through and hopefully outlive the kitties here. Many are already quite old and there are none younger than eight. But the years DO make us think differently, don't they?

I don't know if there are horse rescues that need "fosters" but that might be something that would be workable for you until you decide what the appropriate next step is for you. Again - sending hugs and thanks. Animal people are the BEST people!

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Sorry to hear that. dem4decades Wednesday #1
Thank you- it's sad but a part of life biophile Wednesday #8
I lost my 2 dogs this year, first time without a dog for 50 years. dem4decades Wednesday #10
😢 biophile Wednesday #42
I dog sat my son's dog for a weekend, it was like my sweethear came back to visit. dem4decades Wednesday #49
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Wednesday #2
Maybe eventually- I'm going to see how things go biophile Wednesday #7
Maybe then you can visit the horses, get some quality equine time in? SheltieLover Wednesday #9
Bless your heart - and I do mean that. Thank you. hamsterjill Wednesday #13
I retired 3 years ago - nearly 70 now biophile Wednesday #41
I'm so sorry for your loss. I felt so empty after my last dog passed in 2018. I'd never sinkingfeeling Wednesday #3
Thank you- it's definitely a change in life biophile Wednesday #6
I am so sorry UpInArms Wednesday #4
Thank you- it is sad but not tragic - it's just an adjustment in routine and attitude 😏 biophile Wednesday #5
I'm sorry cate94 Wednesday #11
Its so kind of you to offer that sentiment- thank you biophile Wednesday #26
Somewhere StarryNite Wednesday #12
That is beautiful- what a lovely thought; thank you biophile Wednesday #25
My heart is with you! Hope22 Wednesday #14
Thank you! biophile Wednesday #27
Oh, my...... Bayard Wednesday #15
Your understanding is so much appreciated! Thank you biophile Wednesday #29
My deepest sympathies irisblue Wednesday #16
Thank you for your kind words! biophile Wednesday #30
Two years ago, after 27 years, I became a horse-less mom. Often times I had between 10 and 15 horses on property, in2herbs Wednesday #17
Good advice! I appreciate your gracious reminder of all the memories! biophile Wednesday #31
My neighbor's teenage son is learning to be a bee keeper. In my area it seems that wasps are more prolific than in2herbs Wednesday #50
I'm sorry to hear of your loss nuxvomica Wednesday #18
How true! The little things in our daily routine that we miss! biophile Wednesday #32
Pets are like children that never grow up. patphil Wednesday #19
It's a feeling every pet parent will know. Thank you very much for your expression of sympathy biophile Wednesday #33
I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope you find comfort in knowing he is out of pain now. tazcat Wednesday #20
Thank you - Yes, he is with my horse who passed 6 years ago biophile Wednesday #34
Sorry to hear the news. calimary Wednesday #21
Thank you, Calimary! biophile Wednesday #35
There are many Animal rescue agencies just type in horse or animal rescue and your state or county's name Botany Wednesday #22
Thank you! Yes, volunteering seems like a better option at this time biophile Wednesday #36
I am so sorry for your loss, biophile Grim Chieftain Wednesday #23
Your kind words are much appreciated! biophile Wednesday #37
My deepest condolences, biophile. HeartsCanHope Wednesday #24
Thank you so much! biophile Wednesday #38
I'm so sorry to hear that wendyb-NC Wednesday #28
Thank you, yes, indeed, Wendyb biophile Wednesday #39
That's right wendyb-NC Wednesday #44
So sorry montanacowboy Wednesday #40
True that! I never really minded the cold weather work biophile Wednesday #46
I'm sorry for the loss of your companion and perhaps a way of life. yonder Wednesday #43
Indeed it is best not to make hasty decisions after a loss biophile Wednesday #47
My condolences Dear_Prudence Wednesday #45
Thank you, Dear Prudence! biophile Wednesday #48
Sorry Rebl2 Wednesday #51
Thank you, Rebl2 biophile Thursday #53
I'm sorry you lost him biophile. That is hard on a horse mom. George McGovern Thursday #52
What a beautiful image! biophile Thursday #54
You are welcome. 🫶🏼 George McGovern Thursday #55
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