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Marthe48

(19,620 posts)
30. Be in the kitchen
Mon Jan 6, 2025, 01:39 PM
Jan 6

Watch what your wife does to prep, cook, and clean. What do you want to do? What can you do? What is your wife willing to hand over to you? I'll admit it's hard for me to give up my territory, but I enjoyed his company.
I loved having my husband hanging out with me while i cooked our meals. As he got older, he tried making a few things and he enjoyed finding recipes, making sure we had ingredients, and making it. He made potato and zucchini chips, salsa from vegetables we had grown, easy cookies. He would help with clean up and I appreciated his help.
We both liked sandwiches, so we had bacon and tomato, meatball subs, hoagies, hamburgers. He liked bologna, tomato and cheese, and made those himself. We both liked salads, and they are simple to make, never look bad
You got a lot of advice in other posts. Enjoy time together and look at kitchen chores as a chance for that.

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Rice and dried beans are easy to boil up and together you get protein! GreenWave Jan 4 #1
Your local library likely has a plethora of cookbooks. no_hypocrisy Jan 4 #2
Try this PJMcK Jan 4 #3
Bake some Cornbread take you 2 Boxes 2 Eggs bit of Milk Oneear Jan 4 #4
Ask your wife what ideas she has about you helping out more. Irish_Dem Jan 4 #5
Yeah she probably "does". Historic NY Jan 4 #8
thanks everyone mdmc Jan 4 #6
What about grocery shopping? Sanity Claws Jan 4 #7
And besides just helping in the kitchen as you have been doing, the shopping too will help, and the shopping will SWBTATTReg Jan 6 #28
Scrambled eggs are easy - just pay attention BoRaGard Jan 4 #9
Youtube is your friend. Watch food prep videos. There are a ton on YT, ranging from simple japple Jan 4 #10
Hobo Skillet or Hobo Casserole with hamburger is easy to cook. Emile Jan 4 #11
On the nights you cook make enough for two meals. Hope22 Jan 4 #12
Watch and take notes when she cooks. Use it as a tutorial so she can teach you best practices she uses. Nanuke Jan 4 #13
No advice but to say what a jewel of a husband you are CousinIT Jan 4 #14
actually, I'm pretty awful mdmc Jan 4 #15
Get educated IbogaProject Jan 4 #16
You are fortunate to cook for two. Cooking for one is a challenge. So here are some ideas. usonian Jan 4 #17
Nice, nice, nice!! I love the tips and I do enjoy cooking too, for the fun of it. SWBTATTReg Jan 6 #29
OH US, HOW could I have MISSED this??? elleng Tuesday #32
If you let your Wife teach you how to cook Turbineguy Jan 4 #18
I've heard it said that cooking is an art and baking is a science SheltieLover Jan 4 #19
Baking is less forgiving than cooking Retrograde Jan 4 #20
For sure! SheltieLover Jan 4 #21
Think of a category of food you like and start small. Keep it simple. chowmama Jan 4 #22
To me the hardest part is the planning Phentex Jan 5 #23
We have a set food category for each day of the week SARose Jan 5 #24
I love the internet WhiteTara Jan 5 #25
Corned beef hash and a cabbage salad is timeless. applegrove Jan 5 #26
yummy! mdmc Wednesday #33
Post removed Post removed Jan 6 #27
Be in the kitchen Marthe48 Jan 6 #30
You could try Pinterest.com Tanuki Tuesday #31
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