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Sherman A1

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8. as far as unwritten etiquette, well
Thu May 24, 2012, 08:04 PM
May 2012

you can run into some awkward moments, depending upon how the research develops. My Grandfather was something of a rascal it seems. He apparently fathered one child out of wedlock (about 1895 or so) was briefly married and then run out of town (probably by his Father), in Ohio ending up in Illinois, where he married my Grandmother (who turned out to be something of a mean drunk, but that's another story). They split in the 1930's and we believe he married again. The Granddaughter of his first & somewhat temporary wife found me through one of the research sites and we communicate as time permits.

His Sister also had a child out of wedlock & sent him off to an orphanage we believe as he ended up in Iowa while she married & moved to Detroit. The boy kept the maternal name as a last name, eventually shows up on a WWI draft registration, some church records and I was able to track the family down there. They had no idea of his family as he never spoke of them. I am not sure how much interest or happiness my contacting them created, but from my point of view history is history.

I have found in my research, Slave holders, Civil War Veterans (and deserters one of which was shot or hung), Possible Revolutionary War Veterans, A Car Thief, Alleged members of a charming group that starts with a K, Farmers, Blacksmiths, Harness Makers, Jewelers, Grocers, Shipbuilders and a whole bunch more. It's a whole lot of fun.....

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Greetings, Seaglass, and welcome! kdmorris May 2012 #1
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Iterate gave you lots of good advice kdmorris May 2012 #7
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as far as unwritten etiquette, well Sherman A1 May 2012 #8
I've been researching PatSeg May 2012 #9
I wish I could "like" your post :D kdmorris May 2012 #10
Quite unlike anything else PatSeg May 2012 #11
I'm late to welcome you, but you've jumped into a whole new obsession! csziggy Jun 2012 #12
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I noticed you mentioned you hadn't had much luck with your search in Canada, polly7 Jun 2012 #14
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Yvw seaglass ... polly7 Jun 2012 #16
I thought I would have no problem with the name "Huffman" in the US kdmorris Jun 2012 #17
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LOL yep! kdmorris Jun 2012 #20
I use the links with Ancestry to get the hints so I can check them out easily csziggy Jun 2012 #18
I am new to this forum... retrogal Sep 2012 #21
I've been looking into some open source web software, Iterate Sep 2012 #22
I don't use a GEDCOM retrogal Sep 2012 #23
Welcome to our little group! Rosie1223 Sep 2012 #24
Welcome retrogal kdmorris Sep 2012 #25
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