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Mental Health Support

angstlessk

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6. Funny...as long as I thought myslef as victim of my parents abuse

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Wed Dec 18, 2013, 10:47 PM

Dec 2013

my mothers to be exact..when I was raped she blamed me (and actually I was 10-20% to blame)...I was suicidal..and depressed...I went to psychiatrists who supported my contentions..but until I realized I was a narcissistic, selfish, horrible child to my parents...did I then begin to heal....

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I need to build a foundation of intrinsic self worth but I'm not sure how to start. [View all] Locut0s Dec 2013 OP

Start with elleng Dec 2013 #1

Thank you Ellen... Locut0s Dec 2013 #3

about Recursion's big Indian wedding, I think, elleng Dec 2013 #5

Get a piece of paper and a pen LiberalEsto Dec 2013 #2

I guess I really should try this... Locut0s Dec 2013 #4

Write down one positive attribute on a post-it note, or several post-it notes. No Vested Interest Dec 2013 #11

Funny...as long as I thought myslef as victim of my parents abuse angstlessk Dec 2013 #6

It's true I do get into the victim mentality thing at times... Locut0s Dec 2013 #8

Sounds like you libodem Dec 2013 #7

There is a group that works on "self esteme" issues. Stuart G Dec 2013 #9

First, have you inquired about a good counselor? It really helps to process this through counseling. RBInMaine Dec 2013 #10