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Mental Health Support

elleng

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1. This may be his 'bottom,'

Reply to Maraya1969 (Original post)

Sat Nov 9, 2013, 01:20 PM

Nov 2013

so take advantage by confronting him, he MUST STOP drinking, attend AA (or similar program,) and get out of your life until repairs are well along,

May sound severe, but I spent a good part of my life similarly connected. Get yourself out, and get him on the road to health.

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I am having a real hard time forgiving and deciding what to do with my "boyfriend" [View all] Maraya1969 Nov 2013 OP

This may be his 'bottom,' elleng Nov 2013 #1

I guess I kind of feel the because this has been his life for so long that he will not be able to Maraya1969 Nov 2013 #3

Listen to what Tobin said, elleng Nov 2013 #4

You are too kind Maraya. Literally. Tobin S. Nov 2013 #2

+1 LiberalEsto Nov 2013 #6

No more conditions, no more negotiations, no more agreements. enough Nov 2013 #5

Job one would seem to be protecting yourself...physically, economically, and emotionally HereSince1628 Nov 2013 #7

"If he doesn't agree to ..." Tell him to leave you alone. Now. Not later. AnotherMcIntosh Nov 2013 #8

Thank yo all for the great information and help. I've decided to pack his things in the car and Maraya1969 Nov 2013 #9

what a horrible situation otherone Nov 2013 #10

I don't know, the advice I gave to a guy who talked to me after group while IP... moriah Nov 2013 #11

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