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murielm99

(31,625 posts)
6. Okay.
Fri Sep 6, 2024, 02:39 PM
Sep 2024

I did something small for someone once that apparently did make a difference.
It was my freshman year in college, orientation week. We were in the middle of taking placement tests. The tests were voluntary, but why repeat a lot of things we had learned in high school, or AP courses?

It was a beautiful day. I was walking back to my dorm. A girl was walking a bit behind me, crying. Finally, I turned around and asked her what was wrong, and if I could help. She told me that she had just bombed a Latin placement test. I invited her back to my dorm room and gave her coffee. She talked about it. After a while, she felt better.

About a week later, I went to her floor and found her. She was doing okay.

Flash forward to senior year. This girl was a superstar, getting ready to graduate with high honors. Earlier, she had been talking to a group of girls. A couple of them did not like me. They thought I was crazy and weird. She said, "Wait a minute," and told them the story that went back to our first week in school. She defended me. One of my acquaintances repeated this defense to me. I verified that it had happened. I was touched by this story. I had some affirmation that I had done something right at least one time. There are surely some things in your past that are like this incident. You may never find out about them, but I am certain that they are there.





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Obviously you matter to us because we are reading your post Bayard Sep 2024 #1
"I considered it an accomplishment to just survive every day." OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #7
We sometimes want to make big sweeping changes. Keepthesoulalive Sep 2024 #2
Yes, Delphinus Sep 2024 #3
I so agree Delphinus Sep 2024 #4
Me too. My favorite was the one about Death. The Fate one is a close second. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #10
And, Delphinus Sep 2024 #11
You are dealing with two different puzzles, right? MerrilyMerrily Sep 2024 #5
I agree with you. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #8
Okay. murielm99 Sep 2024 #6
That would be a nice thing to hear. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #9
You may never hear. murielm99 Sep 2024 #12
With all due respect... OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #13
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