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debm55

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4. I had an appointment with my therapist.on Thursday. He said they were evil. I was sexual abused by my mother's mom

Reply to niyad (Reply #1)

Sun Feb 25, 2024, 11:19 PM

Feb 2024

Saturday while given a bath. My cousin finally verified this as she was in the tub with me. When I finally told my mother all she said was my grandmother was peculiar. Niyad. why doesn't my mother feel any love for me? what did I do wrong. What is there about me that makes her hate me? For 69 years I was an unwanted /unloved child. My therapist says she is toxic.That it's not me..

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My birthday was the Feb 20. I am now 69.I got a card from my family with a check.So I called to thank them. What I [View all] debm55 Feb 2024 OP

Hugggggggs. Let them stew in their own toxicity and hatred. You are a niyad Feb 2024 #1

I had an appointment with my therapist.on Thursday. He said they were evil. I was sexual abused by my mother's mom debm55 Feb 2024 #4

What did you do wrong? 3Hotdogs Feb 2024 #11

Everything you said! niyad Feb 2024 #16

One thing you need to understand is that some people are, for whatever niyad Feb 2024 #17

Have you looked into re-parenting? limbicnuminousity Feb 2024 #23

I'm so sorry, debm55. Nt spooky3 Feb 2024 #2

You seem level and very cool. Kath2 Feb 2024 #3

Thank you Kath2. My husband made me a craft room for my birthday. He was in pre med at Cornel Medical school, He drove debm55 Feb 2024 #8

How nice, a craft room for your Bday! Gosh, I've always wanted such a room for something like this. What a SWBTATTReg Feb 2024 #13

You are a good person MN2theMax Feb 2024 #5

TY MN2thMax. debm55 Feb 2024 #6

You need people around you who care for you as much as you care for others. CousinIT Feb 2024 #7

What a great post, CousinIT! The "Toxicity Team". That's a good way to describe it. calimary Feb 2024 #21

First and foremost..Love yourself. You cannot change other people, even family. Deuxcents Feb 2024 #9

Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, and a wonderful coming year. niyad Feb 2024 #15

Happy Birthday. Deuxcents. Wishing you love debm55 Feb 2024 #18

Happy Birthday, Deuxcents! calimary Feb 2024 #22

Toxic people in your life . . . who needs them? Aussie105 Feb 2024 #10

Wishing you emotional and physical healing. moonbeam23 Feb 2024 #12

debm55, if you are into self-help type books,,,, KarenS Feb 2024 #14

I heard of the book, but never read it. I thought I Could change them on my own. The day I was told that I was not able debm55 Feb 2024 #19

Stop engaging them. Stay away and off the MOMFUDSKI Feb 2024 #20