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happybird

(5,320 posts)
1. I'm sorry.
Fri Feb 16, 2024, 04:17 PM
Feb 2024

Deciding to move on doesn’t stop it from hurting.


I’ve been going through something similar. People who I thought were my friends have been using me for my car and for rides. One of them totaled my car last week. They haven’t called and have blocked me from calling them. I’m tired of being too trusting and expecting others to behave like I would. Just because I wouldn’t do something doesn’t mean others won’t do it to me. That’s a hard pill to swallow and I’m just about done with people, in general. Forgetting them and moving on is the right thing to do but it still fricking hurts.

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Ever think you're friends [View all] XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 OP
I'm sorry. happybird Feb 2024 #1
I'm so sorry! XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #2
Nope. happybird Feb 2024 #4
I asked why i wasn't invited XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #5
Yep. I feel ya. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2024 #6
That's so sad XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #7
Yes , a huge YES, kozar Feb 2024 #3
I'm always supressing my hurt and anger XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #8
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