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OldBaldy1701E

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29. I would be joining him regardless of whether or not he left a note.
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 05:36 PM
Jan 2024

I cannot survive without him.

What my worth to him or his worth to me might be is irrelevant unless I can magically create the means to shelter, clothe, and feed us. Because it is just his part-time pay at the moment. Now, we are in a good housing situation at the moment, but we have now learned that our shelter is at stake, in the next six months or so. (The owner is getting married and wants the entire townhouse for them.) After the pandemic started my hubby, who had been working for this company for 15 years, was let go after they canned the entire division. (3000+/- out of work in email. We had been in lockdown for one month. Yay unfettered capitalism and its honored practices!) I celebrated 5 years of not being able to find help or work after moving to this state. Thanks to all this, we are in no condition to be trying to find a place to live, especially with my constant health issues. My hubby is also having some issues, but in the dictionary by the definition of 'taciturn' is his picture, so he won't tell me anything.

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Are you in physical pain from some medical malady? Frasier Balzov Jan 2024 #1
Yes. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #4
I feel for you. Geechie Jan 2024 #2
Those 'hotlines' are a joke. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #5
Call 988 MutantAndProud Jan 2024 #3
I tried for SSDI twice. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #6
Social security rules need more flexibility MutantAndProud Jan 2024 #8
I wish I could think of something to say that would make you believe Ocelot II Jan 2024 #7
I really appreciate your efforts. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #11
But you're not sitting there alone.... Bayard Jan 2024 #13
I don't have any advice, more like an observation. captain queeg Jan 2024 #9
Help cost money. I don't have any. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #10
There's no greater question a person can confront than whether to go on or end it. captain queeg Jan 2024 #12
Your fate is, of course, in your hands.. Permanut Jan 2024 #14
... Skittles Jan 2024 #15
You are valuable it just that our society is predatory to anyone with vulnerability Stargazer99 Jan 2024 #16
I hope you can find your purpose to your life. BoomaofBandM Jan 2024 #17
My apologies for the delay. Things are frazzled around here. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #31
I feel your pain... Wuddles440 Jan 2024 #18
I know the feeling XanaDUer2 Jan 2024 #19
I have not had a 'job' in ten years. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #20
Your husband would miss you. Qutzupalotl Jan 2024 #21
I suspect that is the only reason I am still here. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #22
You are the one thing that he can never truly replace. Qutzupalotl Jan 2024 #23
To tell him any of this is to make things worse for him. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #24
Would you be devastated if he took his own life Qutzupalotl Jan 2024 #25
I would be joining him regardless of whether or not he left a note. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #29
Your husband needs you here. Have you MOMFUDSKI Jan 2024 #26
Okay, here we go. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2024 #32
I'm so sorry to read about your situation. thucythucy Jan 2024 #27
Poor Baldy! Where do you live? Beakybird Jan 2024 #28
My son took his own life in 2017. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2024 #30
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