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Quakerfriend

(5,688 posts)
16. So very sorry you are dealing with all of this
Wed Dec 13, 2023, 10:02 PM
Dec 2023

right now LL.

They are just weak & cowardly.
Somehow cowards always direct their cruelty toward those who are most caring and kind.
You should cut off ties, at least until you feel stronger and are well again. I know this must be very painful for you.

I had breast cancer & it looked quite bleak for awhile but, I survived- and that was 25 years ago.
I felt very emotionally fragile at the time.

Please, push all of their negativity aside and go forward with only love in your heart & love for yourself. You are a DUer and we are all here for you!!

Try to stay strong & please, keep us posted as to how you are doing. ❣️

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We very much need you here. onecaliberal Dec 2023 #1
Thank you so much. Having a hard time feeling safe at this point. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #3
Understandable. onecaliberal Dec 2023 #8
Thank you. It's scary but I need to let it out. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #10
Absolutely. You need to be heard and you deserve to be heard. onecaliberal Dec 2023 #12
Oh no, dear Liberal Loner. What awful knowledge. femmedem Dec 2023 #2
Thank you. I wrote them all and said, I am sorry for making all of you hate me this badly. I asked the trolls LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #4
They have also done things like ask me for my artwork, and when I send it, ghost me and they don't LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #5
And then I have this cancer thing going on at the same time. It just feels like a LOT right now. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #6
It is a lot. Either one would be a lot for anyone, let alone both at once. femmedem Dec 2023 #19
Thank you. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #23
Sounds like they could be jealous of your talent Walleye Dec 2023 #17
I highly doubt that, but thanks. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #24
It sounds like one of those family members has a cluster b personality disorder! rainy Dec 2023 #7
Thank you so much! Not a therapist myself but have strongly suspected malignant narcissism, LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #9
One of the good things about being in the middle of cancer treatment is, I might just be able LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #11
So very sorry you are dealing with all of this Quakerfriend Dec 2023 #16
Thank you so much. I'm sorry you had breast cancer too. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #25
I wish you the very best outcome with cancer. rainy Dec 2023 #13
Thank you so very much! I'm glad you got to a good place after all that harm you went through... LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #14
Just purchased this on Kindle. Really hoping it gives me something to hold on to. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #15
Please come here and vent anytime makes you feel better. That's what we are here for Walleye Dec 2023 #18
Are you in a physically safe space, away from your tormentors? hunter Dec 2023 #20
Yes. But even DU is not safe for me, my tormentors are here. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #22
... flying rabbit Dec 2023 #21
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