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XanaDUer2

(14,974 posts)
Tue Oct 17, 2023, 07:58 AM Oct 2023

Gone no contact with sister [View all]

I'm constantly looking for support for anxiety. I probably over share. Anxious people can be a pain to listen to constantly.

I am at the point of not contacting my sister due to her rude, aggressive responses to me. I need to keep problems to myself. I had a health scare that might still be a problem. Thank God for you all on here.

I cannot take the judgement, hounding, demands I follow her instructions to live my life her way. Its a long story. But she's making it worse. I am reaching out for local friends.

Funny thing is, my bossy know-it-all sister s life is a shitshow. She's been disabled years. She takes it as some type of personal affront I hired a SSDI lawyer and she didn't. She thinks my dental specialist is "upselling" me. I don't cook the way I should. I've always been nice and supportive listening to her financial problems, health problems, kid problems. I just withdraw. I don't want to argue. I'm tired.

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Gone no contact with sister [View all] XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 OP
Hey underpants Oct 2023 #1
Thank you XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #12
oh I support you KarenS Oct 2023 #2
She's insanely controlling XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #3
this kind of stuff hurts your head and your heart. KarenS Oct 2023 #4
I over shared bad issues XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #5
good for you! shes toxic and a psychic vampire.. you dont need her crap. samnsara Oct 2023 #6
I'm not the one with a 24-yr-old daughter XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #7
My toxic brother hasn't spoke to me in years. He always made. my SIL talk to me. LakeArenal Oct 2023 #8
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #9
You are on a strictly one way relationship. I feel for you. It's very hurtful. LakeArenal Oct 2023 #10
I really over shared relationship problems XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #11
My dear XanaDUer. OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 #13
It does make sense XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #14
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