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XanaDUer2

(15,137 posts)
15. No she doesn't
Thu Sep 7, 2023, 02:25 PM
Sep 2023

My sister has been paying shittons of money for years. Moving her out of a dorm as an undergrad and letting her get a dog. A dog now my sisters responsibility. Paid $5000 ( according to her) to move her from north florida to south florida. I cost my mother zero to move.

Drove to Orlando to pick up a "special couch" in a rented truck. I bought second-hand furniture. Constantly poor mouths.

Now somehow got the money (which the 20k was for-I suspect she got a home loan bc the amount then became 14k) to move my niece again for a program in nursing my niece could have entered as an undergraduate but refused


Turning a 4-yr degree into a 6-yr degree and costing tens of thousands of dollars more, plus several yrs of lost salary. !!!

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Tou did the right thing mercuryblues Sep 2023 #1
I asked her that XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #2
You can get a new SS card Turbineguy Sep 2023 #5
Sorry I was unclear XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #7
Good for you cyclonefence Sep 2023 #3
Good for you. Grey Sep 2023 #4
Cut her out. I waited to drop a toxic sibling a few years ago. LakeArenal Sep 2023 #6
I've stopped texting her XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #22
Smart move for all the right reasons. I refuse to cosign on anything I wouldn't borrow for myself... marble falls Sep 2023 #8
We're looking for a cheap condo XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #10
Entitled to the teeth. You do not need this! marble falls Sep 2023 #12
Yeah, wow. Deuxcents Sep 2023 #13
No she doesn't XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #15
Sometimes, people can't say no to their kids Deuxcents Sep 2023 #17
My niece runs the show XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #21
Shame on her for imposing on you. vlyons Sep 2023 #9
Ty. And she's on SSDI XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #11
Smart move Joinfortmill Sep 2023 #14
You are not a bank. multigraincracker Sep 2023 #16
My daughter asked me to co-sign once BWdem4life Sep 2023 #18
My sister also said XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #20
Oh my, I feel for you. I am glad you said no. I admire you. You are a strong woman. Love, Debbie. debm55 Sep 2023 #23
You did the right thing gay texan Sep 2023 #19
Your sister is awful damn selfish, to get you, being on SSDI, to sign such a document, that SWBTATTReg Sep 2023 #24
She did know XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #25
You did the right thing for you. I wouldn't have done it either. onecaliberal Sep 2023 #26
I cosigned a loan for my brother, he made one payment then he went to my mother doc03 Sep 2023 #27
In sorry XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #28
Yours is an easy position to defend Shermann Sep 2023 #29
No i can't work anymore XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #30
So in effect, your sister wants you to go into debt to give her 20K. Chainfire Sep 2023 #31
During the hysteria of her trying to get several XanaDUer2 Sep 2023 #32
I'd be rolling on the floor laughing if someone asked me to co-sign a loan. hunter Sep 2023 #33
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