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Hope22

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7. You tried to give him a hand up.

Mon May 1, 2023, 01:51 PM

May 2023

He chose to continue his spiral downward. Stay safe and try to tell the closest thing to truth that your heart will believe. It’s hard to say he needs to go because of the gun but next roommate no matter how sane needs the no gun rule. People are just too off center now. Prepare to change the locks and add some extra protection when he is gone. Camera and possibly motion activated lights if that is possible in your area. My best to you! My heart goes out to you for trying! 🙏💗

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Help me figure out how to tell my incel housemate to move. [View all] intheflow May 2023 OP

Your son just needs to inform him he is not renewing the lease. thatdemguy May 2023 #1

i'd give him 30 days and no excuses. mopinko May 2023 #2

I think I agree with you.. Deuxcents May 2023 #3

Can you keep the dog & give it a much better life? irisblue May 2023 #4

I would love to keep her but I already have two dogs. intheflow May 2023 #6

Can you sneak her somewhere? hamsterjill May 2023 #19

If I felt unsafe in my home XanaDUer2 May 2023 #5

No kidding. someone starts talking about carrying a gun in my house, they can find the door. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #8

Absolutely XanaDUer2 May 2023 #9

Actually, I think the anti-vax stance would have had him out of my house pretty damn quick. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #10

We share a 4 bedroom, 2 bath apartment on two floors. intheflow May 2023 #12

It's funny, because that's exactly the lie we came up with. intheflow May 2023 #15

You tried to give him a hand up. Hope22 May 2023 #7

If you feel comfortable XanaDUer2 May 2023 #11

I will. intheflow May 2023 #13

Stay safe XanaDUer2 May 2023 #14

Are you ok nt? XanaDUer2 May 2023 #16

Yes, as I said in my OP, he's perfectly cordial as a housemate. intheflow May 2023 #17

Good XanaDUer2 May 2023 #18