Mental Health Support

I think I would have already dragged little grandson down the 'office' and remind him that this house is yours and that he can live on the freaking street if he cannot be civil. Same with his father. I would also remind them that you know your house and he does not, therefore he needs to either learn about the house, or STFU. I have no issue with any debate, but when it is someone who has no idea what he/she is talking about start and they start obfuscating and re-directing... well, all Emily Post goes out of the window. I guess my position comes from my own parents basically waving goodbye as they tossed me out within 17 days of me hitting my 18th birthday. (Of course, at the time none of us knew what was wrong with me in regards to this type of thing. My Adjustment Anxiety Disorder is almost fatal when it comes to moving or relocating, and it definitely went into overdrive at that time. But, the fact that this was completely ignored as well as being laid on me as if I was doing it on purpose.) So, maybe I am not the best person to advise on this matter. But, I would have no issue seeing it as a form of PTSD.

As Chief O'Brien once so eloquently said: "You choose your friends, and you choose your enemies. But family? That's in the stars!"