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OldBaldy1701E

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17. We cannot have one where we are.
Sat Feb 11, 2023, 01:52 PM
Feb 2023

The owner seems to not want another one here since our last dog passed. It is just as well, as this place sucks and there is no way for a dog to be outside unless I have him/her on a leash. It is just not a good place to raise a dog. Our last one was already 10 when we moved here so he was not exactly energetic all the time. But, trying to raise a young one here would just be cruel to the dog. With no room to run around and always being on a lead... I don't find that appealing for any animal.

We live in Minneapolis. I don't mean anything personal, but these people and I can not find anything to connect on. I am far from the only southerner who lives up here, and the few I have run into all agree with me as far as the massive cultural differences when it comes to social interaction. Namely, I like to have fun and hang out. Up here, it seems as if they all need an excuse to gather together. A fellow transplant once said to me, "A Minnesotan will give you directions to anywhere except their house.", and so far he has been proven completely correct. Plus, it seems as if there has to be money involved. There is little to do without paying for it. (The next person who mentions hiking or any park related activities... I was raised on a farm in the freaking wilderness... I worked as a land surveyor for almost two decades. In the woods. So, been there done that.) Yes, I suppose it is just me. But, this has never been an issue before. Five states and never had any issue making friends. But, those other states were all in the south. Which is why I say that I want to move back so badly. The issue is... all of those states are run by rethug majorities and they have little in the way of aid for anyone other than the rich. So, I cannot move back. Unless I want to suffer a slow, wasting death at the hands of greedy asshats who are more concerned with dick waving than something so horrible as helping your fellow human being.

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The new thing... panic attacks. [View all] OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 OP
I have no advice, just hoping you get better and things work out for you Walleye Feb 2023 #1
Thanks. I wish things were different. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #10
No advice, just hugs and reminding you that your DU family is here for you. I niyad Feb 2023 #2
I appreciate that. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #12
I've been having a little anxiety lately. multigraincracker Feb 2023 #3
Between my neuropathy, arthritis, and diabetes OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #13
I'm so sorry XanaDUer2 Feb 2023 #4
That is the issue. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #14
Yale is offering free "Science of Well Being" course SheltieLover Feb 2023 #5
I will have to check that out. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #15
It's easy SheltieLover Feb 2023 #24
I don't have any advice. Just would like to say you matter to us. onecaliberal Feb 2023 #6
There may well be only one 'better place'. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #16
Do you have a dog? Bayard Feb 2023 #7
We cannot have one where we are. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #17
Wow Bayard Feb 2023 #21
I will look into that. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #23
Maybe its that Scandinavian thing.... Bayard Feb 2023 #26
I wish you the best on choosing a new location to live. jimfields33 Feb 2023 #8
It is not the supposed liberal Mecca that is the issue. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #18
i never had anxiety issues til about mid-2020 mopinko Feb 2023 #9
I have money worries, too XanaDUer2 Feb 2023 #11
Thanks for the support. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #19
well, by next chapter mopinko Feb 2023 #20
Well... at least we can hang out and commiserate together. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #22
i'd love it. mopinko Feb 2023 #25
Hope you are doing better and find a wonderful place to live with many friends. TigressDem Feb 2023 #27
Thanks Tigress. You do your name honor. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #28
Yeah, sorry if there are scratch marks. TigressDem Feb 2023 #29
Well the term still applies regardless. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2023 #30
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