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cilla4progress

(26,092 posts)
Fri Dec 16, 2022, 11:26 AM Dec 2022

How are people doing? [View all]

Since my parents both died within 6 months of one another over 20 years ago, I have struggled at this time of year.

My family is few and far between. Foetunately, though sparse, those bonds are mostly intact. Somehow, in older age and semi-retirement, with covid and cultural divisiveness sprinkled in, my social interactions have diminished to almost nothing.

All my usual tools of engagement are failing me.

I'm lonely and in pain.

Not seeking solutions, just a little commiseration, understanding.

Maybe it will change in the Spring.

Anyone out there wanting to share?



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How are people doing? [View all] cilla4progress Dec 2022 OP
Very sparse family here IbogaProject Dec 2022 #1
Thanks cilla4progress Dec 2022 #6
Dear cilla XanaDUer2 Dec 2022 #2
Thank you! cilla4progress Dec 2022 #7
I have 2 half sisters down in Fl. I'm about 500 XanaDUer2 Dec 2022 #8
I'm sorry - cilla4progress Dec 2022 #14
Hugs to you, my friend. MontanaMama Dec 2022 #3
Beautiful, thank you! cilla4progress Dec 2022 #10
My mom died the day after Thanksgiving. MontanaMama Dec 2022 #15
Too funny... cilla4progress Dec 2022 #16
Stay in contact with those you have left. Haggard Celine Dec 2022 #4
Absolutely! cilla4progress Dec 2022 #11
Hang in there, my friend. Are there friends or family members you could visit via "Zoom"? nt Atticus Dec 2022 #5
Yes., we will see some of our ever-shrinking family for a coupla days cilla4progress Dec 2022 #12
I know many hate social media XanaDUer2 Dec 2022 #9
I find it odd - cilla4progress Dec 2022 #13
Lot to unpack vercetti2021 Dec 2022 #17
Sorry to hear this, vercetti! cilla4progress Dec 2022 #18
Trying just sad vercetti2021 Dec 2022 #19
Yep cilla4progress Dec 2022 #20
I am with you there cilla. OldBaldy1701E Dec 2022 #21
Oh crap, cilla4progress Dec 2022 #22
There are times when clarity and calmness manage to take over. OldBaldy1701E Dec 2022 #23
I hope the new year is treating you better Lifeafter70 Mar 2023 #24
Thanks. OldBaldy1701E Mar 2023 #25
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