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MLAA

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3. My dear husband is 89 with COPD and memory issues.

Reply to Bmoboy (Original post)

Mon Jun 10, 2024, 08:35 AM

Jun 2024

He does require help from me and I now do all the driving as well. He too says he feels bad I have to help him. Here is my heartfelt answer to him and likely what your wife feels: I am so happy to have you with me and it gives me great joy to do the things that keep you with me. Your company, smiles and love are all I need.

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Feeling like a cripple [View all] Bmoboy Jun 2024 OP

I wish I had something helpful or insightful to say. Just know that you have niyad Jun 2024 #1

Boy, do I hear you,,, KarenS Jun 2024 #2

My dear husband is 89 with COPD and memory issues. MLAA Jun 2024 #3

It's all part of the deal. Work hard, play hard has it's effect magnified as we age. Keep moving as much as you ... marble falls Jun 2024 #4

It is tough getting old. MOMFUDSKI Jun 2024 #5

Thanks Bmoboy Jun 2024 #6

aw man, I'm sorry FirstLight Jun 2024 #7

I've used a cane for balance, etc. for several years. Just recently I started No Vested Interest Jun 2024 #8

Your life sounds a lot like mine. GoodRaisin Jun 2024 #9

Been there, still there Bmoboy Jun 2024 #10

I know what you mean. GoodRaisin Jul 2024 #11

Getting better? Bmoboy Jul 2024 #12

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