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XanaDUer2

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Sun Dec 24, 2023, 02:13 PM

Dec 2023

He was just in the bathroom doing it. Leaves the door open.. I'm supposedly his pension beneficiary for ten yrs. I'm supposed to get back account. I hate to be like that, but I have to think of myself. He pays rent and bills.

This time, I didn't say a word. He'll probably be getting his opioids this week. I was hoping to get my pension early, in case I need to leave. I can't get it. I've never seen such arrogance about ones health. He has esophageal precancer and drinks.
He seems to think he'll live to 100 bc his mother is 98. It doesn't work that way. Fucking asshole.

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This is a vent [View all] XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 OP

I see you. I hear you. willamette Dec 2023 #1

Thank you XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #2

He has me now trained not to say anything XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #3

perception willamette Dec 2023 #4

I rely on him to pay bills XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #5

Sounds like a scary situation, I'm wondering if Alanon could help? Rhiannon12866 Dec 2023 #6

Thank you XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #7

You're more than welcome, and don't forget to check in anytime. Rhiannon12866 Dec 2023 #9

X kozar Dec 2023 #8

.TOTAL TRUTH . READ..NUMBER 8.... "JUST BE OK" "IT WILL BE OK"...KOZAR ..#8....NUMBER 8... Stuart G Dec 2023 #10

When I first joined AA, I also attended OA meetings with my AA sponsor Rhiannon12866 Jan 2024 #11

Congrats! XanaDUer2 Jan 2024 #12

Thanks so much! Rhiannon12866 Jan 2024 #13

Thank You for posting some of your experience in AA. Sharing our lives is very important here. Stuart G Feb 2024 #14

Awww, you're more than welcome. Sharing helps me, too. Rhiannon12866 Feb 2024 #15