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hamsterjill

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41. All I know is that from the time I came out of the womb...
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 09:48 AM
12 hrs ago

I've been more happy around animals than I have people. Grew up on a ranch around all kinds of animals and was raised by a father who could literally talk to them. He understood well before his time that each kind of living thing on this earth is dependent on another, and ALL are to be respected.

I have lost many through my rescue efforts, and let me tell you this: Each one of them took a piece of me with them when they left. Because I had freely given each one a piece of me while they were here. If you aren't capable of doing that very thing, then you don't deserve to be loved by animals.

Lucky, as I've already told you, I am always so grateful to know that one was loved so well and cared for. Your grief tells me that your baby was part of the family, and that's how it should be. I am genuinely sorry that you are hurting, but I totally understand and if you'll allow me, I'll hurt a little for you.

The quote you mentioned is amazing. They do wake up the best qualities in us and arouse the soul. I hope you will do whatever you feel is best so that you can move forward and deal with the grief - in your own way and in your own time.

And when the time is right - and only YOU will know this - I am betting that there's going to be an opportunity for you to give of yourself again. It may be another pet, it may be that you decide to get back into your own rescue efforts - WHATEVER...but I know you will. There are so many that need us, that I know you're going to find ways to make a difference for one (or more) that needs it.

Be kind to yourself today, Lucky. Will you do that for me?

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You are in my thoughts ZDU Yesterday #1
Perfect.... JoeOtterbein Yesterday #2
It gets better, Amigo JoseBalow Yesterday #3
I think, too, that what's going on in our country magnifies our other losses. CrispyQ Yesterday #4
This makes sense electric_blue68 19 hrs ago #36
... Niagara Yesterday #5
. LuckyCharms Yesterday #6
That grief will never go away, Lucky Niagara Yesterday #9
Wow that's incredible thanks for sharing! ... OldBoss Yesterday #7
Thank you for the wisdom from Almaas Wild blueberry Yesterday #8
A few days ago? Lulu KC Yesterday #10
Wonderful post, LC. Felicita Yesterday #11
That's the advice I give everyone who has lost a pet -- get another as soon as practical William Seger Yesterday #14
Lost my longtime dog a few months ago mdbl Yesterday #12
❣️ littlemissmartypants Yesterday #13
i lost my last long lived cat + i soon got 2 more. i need spares. you need spares. pansypoo53219 Yesterday #15
I feel like Grief is... BurnDoubt Yesterday #16
For you: sinkingfeeling Yesterday #17
My deepest condolences. Charlie Chapulin Yesterday #18
We adopted our most recent dog in February mountain grammy Yesterday #19
My heart goes out to you. . . . h2ebits Yesterday #20
I'm so sorry. I feel you...my brother died of Covid in 2021 and my dog's death is LuckyCharms Yesterday #26
Indeed. . . . h2ebits Yesterday #32
Phew! catchnrelease Yesterday #21
I'm so sorry... LuckyCharms Yesterday #25
Thanks catchnrelease Yesterday #29
I'm so sorry, Lucky. Been there twice before. Diamond_Dog Yesterday #22
My condolences lucky. Your explanation makes sense of my recent experience. Ilikepurple Yesterday #23
Oh my...you nailed my feelings exactly. LuckyCharms Yesterday #27
Anyone who has given his heart to another being understands what you are going through, Lucky. Bumbles Yesterday #24
Sending you love and peace. PittBlue Yesterday #28
Whoa, Thanks for Sharing That, LuckyCharms! It Definitely Hit a Nerve. The Roux Comes First Yesterday #30
It's not fair buzzycrumbhunger Yesterday #31
A Dog's Last Will & Testament..... Bayard Yesterday #33
This message was self-deleted by its author applegrove 19 hrs ago #34
That is beautiful. applegrove 19 hrs ago #35
Some wonderful thoughts by that person. Another hug for you, LC. electric_blue68 19 hrs ago #37
Condolences on your loss. Beautiful, resonant quote. Timeflyer 13 hrs ago #38
This is very insightful, thanks for sharing it FakeNoose 13 hrs ago #39
Thanks so much for sharing that, LC. TygrBright 12 hrs ago #40
All I know is that from the time I came out of the womb... hamsterjill 12 hrs ago #41
Jill... LuckyCharms 12 hrs ago #43
You are putting good back into the world even as you grieve, Lucky. hamsterjill 12 hrs ago #44
The pets EuterpeThelo 12 hrs ago #42
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