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human loved one. Our pets often give us unconditional love, without the complications of human relationships. Their lives are short compared to typical human lifespan, and losing them feels unfair for that reason. Please don't beat yourself up for grieving so much.

I'm sorry your best friend of 60 years reacted so badly when you offered to help him recover from alcoholism. But I'd guess that was his addiction reacting, that he wasn't really serious about wanting to quit, and your willingness to help seemed threatening to him. You did the right thing by offering love and support. He wasn't able to cope with it, and with the reality of needing to overcome alcoholism, at that moment. I hope he'll reach out to you and apologize and accept your help.

Sending more hugs... We're here for you.