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27. There are 2 families that have taken care of me ...
Mon Jun 8, 2026, 02:28 PM
20 hrs ago

and all my property for the past 12 years. One is Rep., one Dem.; and I have known and loved both for 20+ years. They treat me as if I were their mother.
They do this for me while doing the same for their own parents who are my age or older - their own children have grown up, are college grads, with responsible jobs' and have families of their own and they now assist in my care as they do their own grandparents.
The grown-ups in the R family all have responsible jobs out-side the home; when they get home, there are gardens to tend, animals to feed, water; fields of hay to tend, cut and store. During winter, day or night, all the males plow snow, cut and removed trees that have blocked our area roads.
They are working or sleeping when news is on TV; but do listen to the radio while at work or on the road - the only station we have here is Sinclair. What does that tell you?

The D family are so loving with never an unkind word re: anyone, D or R. They became guardians to a minor child who was adopted by a single mother (distant relative of mine) who died young. The child, now a coll. grad. with a responsible job, calls me, Grandmother. As a lib. D, she is the ONLY one with whom I discuss politics on my level but she has moved away due to her work.

My Prayer: Almighty God, Thank you for bringing DU and all these loving loving people into my life. Please help me change what I can; accept what I can't change and the wisdom to know the difference.
Please hold Tina and tisha (the friend who loves her without bias) in Your Hand during this troubling time. Amen.

Note: Due to exhaustion, this was supposed to be a point and click (recs only) day for me (took over an hour to type) but I could not let this post pass without ...

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My dear friend is a repub. But [View all] tishaLA Yesterday OP
Good wishes and prayers for Tina... LuckyCharms Yesterday #1
My thoughts too.... essaynnc Yesterday #2
Best wishes for a successful surgery. Biophilic Yesterday #3
Healing vibes on the way to her. SheltieLover Yesterday #4
Hello My Dear Faustina wyn borkins Yesterday #5
Prayers and healing vibes to Faustina. pdxflyboy Yesterday #6
Thoughts, prayers and good wishes to Faustina Grim Chieftain Yesterday #7
Send my prayers to Tina, debm55 Yesterday #8
Best wishes IbogaProject 23 hrs ago #9
I can't tell you how much I've tried tishaLA 23 hrs ago #12
Sounds like she has internalized TommyT139 20 hrs ago #26
Holding Tina and Tisha and all their loved ones in light and love. niyad 23 hrs ago #10
May skill, love, and faith see her through and keep her well. LuvLoogie 23 hrs ago #11
I will keep a good thought for the best possible outcome for Faustina MIButterfly 23 hrs ago #13
I had open brain surgery two years ago ballardgirl 23 hrs ago #14
Thank you for this reassuring message tishaLA 22 hrs ago #15
Best thoughts and well wishes to your friend and to you. Moostache 22 hrs ago #16
Sending good vibes and best wishes for a speedy recovery LA Blue Bengal 22 hrs ago #17
May she survive with that sweetness intact, God Speed. JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #18
May you sail through this procedure Faustina Picaro 22 hrs ago #19
done. AllaN01Bear 22 hrs ago #20
Too often we all get caught up in the political issues of the day. And too often we forget there are actually Fil1957 22 hrs ago #21
All the best to your friend Tina.. mountain grammy 22 hrs ago #22
Prayers and healing vibes for her. highplainsdem 21 hrs ago #23
Yes. It used to infuriate me that she was a repub tishaLA 21 hrs ago #24
May she have a safe successful surgery, and a very good recovery! electric_blue68 21 hrs ago #25
There are 2 families that have taken care of me ... oldsoldierfadingfast 20 hrs ago #27
My story is almost as strange. tishaLA 20 hrs ago #28
People are complicated and we all have blind spots. lostnfound 8 hrs ago #29
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